Papa Kuhikuhi ʻatikala
Pehea inā noi pinepine kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha iā ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē kālā?
Pehea e hōʻole ʻole ai e hāʻawi kālā i kekahi?
E hāʻawi aku iā ia, malia paha e nele ka ʻeke ʻohe.Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē iā ia, e hōʻeha hou paha ia i kou pilina, no laila he aha kaʻu e hana ai?
E hōʻole e hāʻawi kālā i kēia mau ʻano kanaka 4
Hoʻolaha!Eia nā ʻano ʻehā o ka poʻe e noi ana iā ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē kālā, a mai ʻaiʻē kālā.ʻO ka ʻano ʻehā, ʻaʻole ʻoe i kūkākūkā.
ʻO ka mua: nā kūlana waiwai maikaʻi ʻole
ʻAʻole hoʻoikaika ʻia ke kāne a me ka wahine.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke uku i ka uku hoʻolimalima, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke uku i nā uku kula o kāu mau keiki.
ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia kēia ʻano kālā.
E like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana, mai ʻaiʻē i ke kālā mai ka poʻe ʻilihune, mai hoʻāʻo e pāʻani i ke Akua, ʻaʻole kāu hana ke kōkua i ka poʻe ʻilihune, pono ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa pono iā ʻoe iho e uku i ke kālā.
ʻO ka pilikia nui a ka poʻe ʻilihune, ʻaʻole lākou e aʻo iā lākou iho.
ʻO ka lua: ʻO ka hana ʻoihana e pono ai ke kālā
ʻO ia ke ʻano o ke kanaka makemake i ke kālā no ka ʻoihana, akā ʻaʻole lawa ke kālā e loaʻa iā ʻoe.
ʻAʻole pono e ʻaiʻē ʻia kēia ʻano kālā, hele ʻo ia i ka panakō no ka hōʻaiʻē.
ʻO kēia ʻano kālā, ma hope o kou ʻaiʻē ʻana, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ʻāpana ke loaʻa kālā ʻoe, a inā e nalowale ke kālā, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i nā mea ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ke ʻano ʻekolu: kou mau hoa papa mua, nā hoaaloha a me nā hoahana
ʻO kou mau hoa papa, nā hoaaloha a me nā hoa hana, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka maikaʻi o ka pilina ma mua, inā ʻōlelo ʻoe ua noi koke mai kēlā kanaka i launa ʻole me ʻoe no hoʻokahi makahiki a ʻelua paha e hōʻaiʻē kālā, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē. ʻO ʻoe?
ʻO ia hoʻi, ua hōʻaiʻē ʻo ia i nā ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha āna i ʻike ai a puni, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i uku maikaʻi i ke kālā, a ʻo kāna hōʻaiʻē ma ka pōʻai o nā hoaaloha ua pau loa i ka banekorupa, no laila ua noʻonoʻo ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
ʻO ke ʻano ʻehā: ʻO Big Brother ka mea i maʻa maikaʻi
He mea koʻikoʻi ka ʻāpana ʻehā, a hāʻule ka poʻe he nui no ka ʻāpana ʻehā.ʻO ia ke ʻano o ke kaikunāne maikaʻi ma mua, a noi koke iā ʻoe e ʻaiʻē kālā, ʻaʻole nui ka nui o ka hōʻaiʻē.
A laila, manaʻo ka poʻe he nui, auē, he kaikuaʻana maikaʻi loa, ʻo ka hōʻaiʻē ʻana i kēia nui kālā, ʻaʻohe pilikia.ʻO ka hopena, ma hope o ka hōʻaiʻē ʻana, ua hāʻule i loko o ka lua.
No ke aha ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai pēlā?No ka mea hiki iā ia ke loaʻa iā ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē kālā, hōʻike ia he pau ʻole kāna lua.ʻOi aku ka nui o ka luna, inā loaʻa kahi pilikia, he pilikia nui ia.
Ma hope o ka ʻōlelo nui ʻana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻike ka poʻe he nui ʻaʻole pono e hōʻaiʻē ʻia ke kālā, akā ma muli o nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana i hilahila e hōʻole, no laila pehea ʻoe e hōʻole ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe?
Pehea e hōʻole ai i kāu hoaaloha a me kāu hoa hana e hōʻaiʻē kālā mai iā ʻoe?
E aʻo aku iā ʻoe i kekahi mau mea hoʻopunipuni.He kanaka hiki ke hoole ia hai me ka hana hewa ole.ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo he ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hōʻeha iā ia ke hāʻawi ʻoe iā ia i ke kālā.No ka mea, ma hope o kou ʻaiʻē ʻana i ke kālā, e noi mau ana ʻoe iā ia i ke kālā, ʻeā, ke noi ʻoe iā ia i kālā, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hauʻoli.
Ma ka psychology, loaʻa i nā kānaka ka hopena i kapa ʻia ʻo ka hopena nalowale.No ka laʻana, inā hāʻawi ka hui iā ʻoe i kahi bonus 3000 yuan hou, e hauʻoli loa ʻoe.Akā kēia hauʻoli.ʻElua a ʻekolu mau lā wale nō e poina iā ʻoe, akā inā e unuhi ka hui i 3000 yuan mai kāu uku, ʻo ka ʻeha o kēia lapaʻau e poina ʻole iā ʻoe no ka hapalua makahiki a i ʻole makahiki, a ʻoi aku paha.
ʻO ia hoʻi, ma hope o kou hōʻaiʻē kālā iā ia, e lawe ʻo ia i kāna kālā ponoʻī, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e manaʻo ʻo ia ke kālā āu i hōʻaiʻē ai iā ia, a i ka wā e hoʻihoʻi ai ʻo ia i ke kālā, manaʻo ʻo ia Me he mea lā ʻo wau. e haawi hou ana i ka'u mau mea ponoi, a ua like ka eha me ke oki i ka io.
No laila, mai ka hiʻohiʻona o ke ʻano kanaka, ʻaʻohe mea i hāʻawi manawaleʻa i ka wā e uku ai i ke kālā.ʻO ka nui o ka nui, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o kēlā manaʻo o ka ʻeha.ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o kou hōʻeha ʻana iā ia ma ka ʻaiʻē ʻole ʻana i ke kālā, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi ma mua o ke kiʻekiʻe āu e hōʻeha ai iā ia ke noi ʻoe iā ia i kālā.
No laila ʻo ke ala mua e hoʻohana i ke ʻano hoʻopaneʻe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio a ʻaiʻē paha.ʻIke ʻoe he maikaʻi loa ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ka hoʻopaneʻe ke noi ʻoe iā lākou e uku iā lākou.Hoʻopaneʻe kēia lā i ka lā ʻapōpō, hoʻopaneʻe ka lā ʻapōpō i ka lā ʻapōpō, a laila hoʻohana mua ʻoe i kēia ʻano ma luna ona.
Ua ʻaiʻē ʻo ia i kāu kālā a ʻōlelo aku iā ia:
Heck, maikaʻi loa kēlā.Akā, no kaʻu kālā, ua kāhea au i koʻu hoahānau i kekahi mau lā i hala aku nei, a e kali au iā ia e kelepona mai iaʻu i kēia mahina aʻe.E hooili aku au ia oe i ka hikiwawe loa.
ʻAʻole hiki i ka poʻe maʻamau ke kali e hōʻaiʻē kālā, inā e kali maoli ʻo ia a hiki i ka mahina aʻe e hele hou mai iā ʻoe, inā makemake ʻo ia e hōʻaiʻē kālā iā ʻoe, e ʻōlelo ʻoe ʻaʻole i hoʻihoʻi kou hoahānau iā ʻoe, a laila hoʻomau i ka lohi. .
ʻO ke ala ʻelua ʻaʻole e hāʻawi i ke kālā nui i ke kālā liʻiliʻi.Inā makemake ka ʻaoʻao e ʻaiʻē i 3 yuan, e hāʻawi wale ʻoe iā ia i 3000 yuan, a laila e hāʻawi ʻia ka 3000 yuan iā ia.I kēia manawa, ua kōkua ʻoe iā ia, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻeha iā ia.No ka mea, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e uku iā ia, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻeha iā ia.
ʻO ke ala ʻekolu, kūʻai i hale, kūʻai i nā hale he nui, e hōʻike iā ia i kāu moʻolelo hōʻaiʻē... E haʻi aku iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohuli iā ia ma hope, a pono paha wau e ʻaiʻē mai iā ia.
ʻO ke ala ʻehā, inā he hale kona, e hoʻolauna iā ia i ka hui kālā moraki.
ʻO ke ʻano ʻelima, ua noi mai koʻu hoaaloha iaʻu e ʻaiʻē kālā, pehea wau e hōʻole pololei ai?Ua ʻōlelo pololei ʻo ia:
I kēia manawa ua makaʻu wau, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kōkua iā ʻoe, ʻo koʻu pilikia noʻonoʻo, kala wau!
ʻO ka mea aʻu i aloha ai ke hāʻawi kālā mai iaʻu, pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hōʻole maikaʻi i ka mea ʻē aʻe?
Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo:
ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kōkua aku iā ʻoe no ka mea ua paʻa kaʻu waihona kālā a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻololi a huki kālā.
A i ʻole makemake kekahi ʻaoʻao e hōʻaiʻē i 100 yuan, akā ʻoi aku au ma mua o 10 mau manawa i ke kālā mai kēlā ʻaoʻao:
"Makemake au i ke kālā, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻaiʻē iaʻu i 1000 yuan?"
- No ka mea, ua noi ka ʻaoʻao iā ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē kālā, akā ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo e makemake ʻoe e hōʻaiʻē kālā, no laila e makaʻu ka ʻaoʻao iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole e aʻa e hōʻaiʻē kālā iā ʻoe.
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