He aha kekahi mau papahana waiwai i ka ʻoihana keiki? Makemake ʻoe e hoʻomaka e hana ma hope koke o ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia!

ʻO ka mea lanakila i nā keiki e lanakila i ka honua: ʻO ke kumu o nā ʻoihana āpau aia i ka ʻakaʻaka o "nā pēpē".

I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole ka waiwai o ka ʻoihana, akā i ka ʻakaʻaka o nā keiki.

I kēia mau lā, lawe mai koʻu hoaaloha i kāna mau keiki liʻiliʻi ʻekolu i kahi paka heʻenalu waho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole au i ʻike i ka nui o nā mākua e heʻenalu ana. ʻO nā keiki a pau e holo ana a lele lele e like me nā kaʻa liʻiliʻi i ʻeha.

ʻO nā keiki ʻekolu o ka ʻohana o koʻu hoaaloha, holo wikiwiki i ka wai no hoʻokahi hola, ʻulaʻula ko lākou mau maka a mānoanoa ko lākou ʻāʻī, a hōʻole lākou e piʻi i uka.

E kū ana koʻu hoaaloha ma hope oʻu, e hana ana ma ke ʻano he kiaʻi kino me kahi parasol, e nānā ana i ka holo ʻana o nā kānaka, piha kona manaʻo i nā manaʻo ʻoihana.

ʻO ka lanakila ʻana i ka puʻuwai o ke keiki, ʻo ia ka lanakila ʻana i ka ʻeke ʻohana

maopopo anei iā 'oe?

No kēlā mau paka leʻaleʻa, hale ʻaina, a me nā wahi mākaʻikaʻi e hiki ai i nā keiki ke hoʻōho "Wow" a hōʻole e haʻalele, wehe nā mākua i kā lākou mau ʻeke.

ʻAʻole ia he hoʻonui, he ʻoiaʻiʻo.

Ua like nā keiki me ka "ali'i ali'i" o ka 'ohana. Ma nā wahi a lākou e kuhikuhi ai, pono nā mākua e hahai a hana i kā lākou makemake.

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi i ke kauwela, i ka wā e wela ai ka lewa e like me ka wok, e manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia ka poʻe inā ʻaʻole lele nā keiki i ka wai.

I kēia manawa, ʻoiai ʻoe e ʻaʻa e hoʻāʻo i kahi mea hou, e laina maoli nā mākua e hāʻawi kālā iā ʻoe.

ʻO ka lawaiʻa i loko o ka loko: ʻo ia ka mea huna o ke kaʻa kiʻekiʻe

Manaʻo paha ʻoe he mea hoihoi loa ka heʻenalu hana?

ʻO ia no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ka "loko lawaiʻa iʻa pupule".

Ua ʻau nui nā iʻa me ka luhi ʻole, akā ʻaʻohe wahi e pakele ai.

No ke aha mai? No ka mea, ʻaʻole nui ka loko, akā he nui nā keiki, e like me kahi hui o nā mea hahai holoholona liʻiliʻi e lele ana a puni ka loko, ua piha loa ke kahua.

ʻO ke keiki i loaʻa i ka iʻa, ua kākau ʻia ʻo "ʻO wau ka champion" ma kona mau maka.

ʻO ka poʻe i loaʻa ʻole ka iʻa, ua ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka hauʻoli.

Maopopo anei iā ʻoe ke kupanaha o kēia ʻike? ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kēlā mau ʻano "Buddhist" o ka pāʻani lawaiʻa a i ʻole ka hopu iʻa.

He mea pono ke hoʻololi i ka iʻa me ka minoʻaka?

Hiki ke hoʻihoʻi ʻia mai ka iʻa a mākou e hopu ai i ka home a kālua ʻia e ko mākou mau mākua, a ʻoi aku ka ʻono o ka ʻono.

No nā mea hoʻohana, ʻo ka hopu ʻana i nā iʻa he nui i ka lā he mau haneli wale nō, akā ma ka hoʻihoʻi e loaʻa iā lākou nā kipa hoʻi a me ka inoa maikaʻi mai nā haneli ʻohana.

ʻO kēia ka "ʻoihana keiki" maoli:

E hoʻohana i hoʻokahi iʻa e hopu i kahi mākeke holoʻokoʻa.

No ke aha i lilo ai ka mākeke o nā keiki i "manawa kūʻai kālā paʻa"?

Nā kāne? ʻAe, he "mea hoʻohana flash".

ʻAi au ma kāu hale ʻaina i kēia lā, a nānā i ka hale ʻaina hou a kekahi i ka lā ʻapōpō. He haʻahaʻa loa ka uku kūʻai hou.

Akā ʻaʻole nā mākua.

Mālama nā mākua i ka "palekana, maluhia o ka naʻau, a makemake nā keiki e hele".

Manaʻo ʻoe e ʻōlelo paha kekahi makua me kāna keiki, "Maʻa loa mākou i kēia wahi, e hele kāua i kahi ʻē aʻe"?

ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, manaʻolana lākou e hoʻokō mau ana ka wahi i ka manaʻo o kā lākou mau keiki i kēlā me kēia manawa a lākou e kipa aku ai.

No laila, i ka wā e lanakila ai nā keiki, e lilo maoli nā mākua i mau mea aloha kūpaʻa, a ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ke kūʻai hou ʻana.

ʻO ka hoʻolaha hale ʻaina i nā keiki he 100 mau manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka hoʻolaha ʻana i nā kāne

No ke aha i hoʻomaka ai ka nui o nā hale kūʻai hale kūʻai e hāʻawi i nā meaʻai a nā keiki a me nā wahi keiki?

No ka mea, hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe ʻoihana akamai i hoʻokahi mea:

ʻO nā kāne ke kaʻa, ʻo nā keiki ka lāʻau.

Hiki i nā kāne ke ʻai ia mea i hoʻokahi manawa i ka hapa nui, akā hiki i ke keiki ke kauo i ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa e ʻai i ʻumi manawa.

Inā ʻoe e hāʻawi i nā keiki i kumu, e lilo koke lākou i "papa hoʻolaha".

E noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kahi keiki ma ke kula kindergarten e ʻōlelo ana, "Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi iʻa inehinei a loaʻa iaʻu kahi ʻai keiki. He ʻono!"

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia ma mua o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i 10,000 yuan e kūʻai i kahi hoʻolaha ma WeChat Moments.

ʻO nā keiki ka "wind vane" o ka ʻoihana hou

Makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kālā paʻa?

A laila pono ʻoe e makaʻala i ke ʻano o ke keiki.

Makemake ʻoe i ka uku kūʻai kiʻekiʻe?

A laila pono ʻoe e aʻo i ka "addiction mechanism" o nā keiki.

ʻO ka pāʻani ʻana i ka wai, ka lawaiʻa ʻana, a i ʻole ka ʻai ʻana o nā keiki, nā pāka makua-keiki, ʻo ia hoʻi, hoʻokahi mea a lākou e ʻōlelo nei.

ʻO ka mea lanakila i ka naʻau o nā keiki, e lanakila ia i ka honua.

I kēia mau lā, nui ka poʻe e ʻimi nei i nā kāne e wehe i "nā hale kūʻai meaʻai" a i ʻole "nā hale kūʻai waiu waiu kaulana i ka Internet", akā hoʻopau lākou i ka ʻoluʻolu ma hope o kekahi mau mahina.

ʻO ka poʻe e loaʻa maoli ke kālā, he poʻe kālepa lākou i ʻike pehea e "hopu ai i nā keiki."

ʻO ka wā e hiki mai ana o ka ʻoihana ka "ʻoihana hoʻokele waiwai o nā keiki"

Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei e pili ana i ka huki ʻana i nā pākeke me nā uku hoʻemi, a laila ʻoe i waho.

Aia ka manawa kūpono i ka leʻaleʻa o nā keiki, ʻai maikaʻi, a nalo iā ʻoe ke hoʻi lākou i ka home.

E hoʻohana i ka "ʻike" e laka i ka puʻuwai o ke pēpē,

E hoʻohana i ka "huaʻōlelo" e laka i ke kālā o nā mākua,

ʻO kēia ke code kumu o ka ʻoihana ma kēia pae.

E hoʻomaka ana mai ka "hoʻokele waiwai aloha pēpē", a me ke kūkulu mālie ʻana i kahi loop pani ʻia o nā hiʻohiʻona hoʻohana, e ʻike ʻoe e hele maoli mai ke kaʻa a e holo maoli ka loaʻa kālā.

Ka hopena: ʻO nā keiki ka mīkini o ka ʻoihana, ʻaʻole ke kuleana kākoʻo

I kēia au, ʻaʻole nā mākua kūʻai ikaika loa, ʻaʻole hoʻi ka "Generation Z" i makaʻu i ka helehelena, akā ʻo ka "liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi".

Loaʻa iā lākou ka lōʻihi o ka nānā ʻana, ka hoʻopiʻi ikaika, a - ka mana kūʻai o ka hui piha ʻana o ko lākou mau mākua.

Inā hopu ʻoe iā lākou, e hopu ʻoe i ke kahawai ʻai o ke kaulahao ʻohana holoʻokoʻa.

I kēia au o ka liʻiliʻi o ka nānā ʻana, ʻo nā brands wale nō e hiki ai ke hoʻōho i nā keiki hiki ke hoʻopili maoli i ka mākeke.

ʻAʻole hilinaʻi ka ʻoihana kūʻai wela o ka wā e hiki mai ana i ke kaʻa, akā ma ka "stickiness".

Hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo hope

• Ua kaulana nā hana a nā keiki e like me ka heʻenalu a me ka lawaiʻa i ke kauwelahoʻokahe waiMea kaua ʻoi
• ʻO ka hopu ʻana i ka puʻuwai o nā keiki ke kī i ka lanakila ʻana i ka ʻai ʻohana
• ʻOi aku ka ikaika o ka ʻike o ka hopu ʻana i ka iʻa i loko o ka loko wai ma mua o nā hana maʻamau o nā mākua-keiki
• ʻO ka pūʻolo o nā keiki + ka ʻike makua-keiki e hoʻonui i ka helu kūʻai hou a me ka inoa
• ʻAʻohe kūpaʻa o nā kāne, akā he paʻa ikaika ko nā mākua
• ʻO ka hoʻopili hou ʻana i nā papahana keiki holomua ma nā kūlanakauhale ʻē aʻe he puka makani o ka manawa kūpono

No laila ua mākaukau ʻoe? No kāu hoʻomaka hou ʻana, e huli i kēlā mau keiki me nā huelo puaʻa, ice cream ma ka lima, a me ka hoʻōho ʻana, "Makemake au e pāʻani hou!" ʻO lākou kāu mau mea hoʻohana C-kūlana maoli!