Osadzigwetsera pansi kwa anthu omwe sali oyenera Anthu anzeru amadziwa kuyimitsa zotayika munthawi yake!

Kodi mukupitirizabe kutaya nthawi ndi mphamvu zanu pa anthu osafunika? Anthu anzeru amadziwa kuletsa kutayika munthawi yake ndikukhala kutali ndi anthu omwe amawakhetsa! Nkhaniyi ikukuphunzitsani momwe mungadziwire "anthu oyipa", kuwasiya mwachangu, kupewa kutopa, ndikupangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wosavuta komanso womasuka. Pokhapokha pophunzira kusiya mungathe kukwaniritsa kudzikuza!

Kodi munayamba mwakumanapo ndi munthu amene, ngakhale kuti linali vuto lawo, anakukwiyitsani kwambiri moti simunathe kugona?

Mwina simukumvetsetsani, kukwiyitsidwa, kudyeredwa masuku pamutu, kapenanso kuimbidwa mlandu popanda chifukwa. Mukufuna kufotokoza, kutsutsa, kufunafuna chilungamo, koma pamene mukulimbana kwambiri, mumatopa kwambiri, ndipo mukhoza kukokera ku mlingo womwewo ndi gulu lina ndikukhala munthu amene mumadana naye kwambiri.

Osapusitsidwa.

Anthu ena sali oyenerera nthawi yanu, osasiyapo kulipira chifukwa cha zolankhula ndi zochita zawo.

Sayenera kukhudza momwe mumamvera

MoyoM’dzikoli nthawi zonse padzakhala anthu ochepa amene amakonda kupeza zifukwa, opondereza ndiponso osakonda ena.

Atha kukhala anzako akuzungulirani, amene nthawi zonse amanyoza ndipo sangakuimitseni kuti muzichita bwino.
Atha kukhala msilikali wamakina pazama TV omwe akuyambitsa mikangano ndikufalitsa mphamvu zoyipa.
Angakhalenso mnzanu wodzikonda amene amangokufunafunani pamene akukufunani.

Kukhalapo kwawo sikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusonkhezeredwa ndi iwo.

Ukakwiya, wachisoni;KusokonezekaKoma kumbukirani, kawonedwe kawo sikasintha kufunikira kwanu kwenikweni. Kuipa kwawo sikungatsimikizire mmene mukumvera.

Alibe ufulu wondikopa, sakuyenera.

Pamene mukuchita zambiri, mumataya mtengo

Kodi munayamba mwakhalapo ndi mphindi yoteroyo?

Tsiku lina, munthu wina ananena chinthu chopanda chifundo kwa inu, ndipo simunathe kuziganizira mobwerezabwereza, ndipo munabwereza m’maganizo mwanu kambirimbiri “momwe mungayankhire,” zomwe zinakupangitsani kukhala okwiya komanso osakhazikika.

Koma munayamba mwaganizapo——Kodi mphamvu zambiri zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito kuti muchite izi ndizofunika kwambiri, ndizotheka kuti apambane?

Anthu ena amadalira pakupanga mikangano kuti kupezeka kwawo kumvekere mukamakangana nawo, ndipamene amakhala osangalala.

Iwo samasamala za kulingalira, amangoganizira za malingaliro awo. Mukamakambirana nawo, zimakhala ngati kulimbira ng’ombe lute, ndipo pamapeto pake mudzawononga nthawi yanu.

Anthu anzeru sangataye nthawi pankhondo zopanda pake zotere Amadziwa kuti njira yabwino yomenyera nkhondo ndi -.Osayankha, osasamala, osataya sekondi pa anthu omwe sakuyenera.

Musalole kuti anthu ang'onoang'ono akhudze dziko lanu

Muli pano kuti mukhale moyo wanu, osati kuti musangalatse aliyense.

Dziko lapansi ndi lalikulu kwambiri, ndipo pali anthu ambiri omwe akuyenera kuwasamalira komanso kuwakonda.

Muyenera kuyang'ana zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri, m'malo mochita chidwi ndi mawu osafunikira.

Mukayamba kusasamala za omwe sali oyenera, mudzapeza kuti dziko limakhala chete nthawi yomweyo ndipo malingaliro anu amakhala omasuka.

Phunzirani kuwaletsa ndipo musawalole kulamulira moyo wanu

Kodi mungapewe bwanji kukhudzidwa?

• Yesetsani Kunyalanyaza —— Sikuti aliyense ali woyenera kuyankha, kuwaletsa ndikosavuta monga kuletsa sipamu.
• Yang'anani pa anthu ndi zinthu zofunika —— Nthawi yanu ndi mphamvu zanu zili ndi malire, bwanji osazigwiritsa ntchito pa anthu oyenerera?
• Dzithandizeni Nokha —— Ukakhala wamphamvu ndi wodzidalira, udzapeza kuti anthu oipawo sangakukhudzenso konse.

Pali mwambi wabwino:"Musamamvetsere kulira kwa galu, komanso musamatsutse mawu a anthu."

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kukhala ndi moyo wabwino.

Kutsiliza: Palibe chilungamo chochuluka padziko lapansi, koma kusinthanitsa

Anthu ena amafunsa kuti: “N’chifukwa chiyani anthu abwino amapwetekedwa nthawi zonse?

Chifukwa dziko silili chilungamo, koma mutha kusankha bwalo lanu lankhondo.

Mungasankhe kukodwa nawo kwa moyo wanu wonse, kapena kusankha kuchoka mwaufulu ndi kuganizira za kukula kwanu.

Kusiya anthu osayenera ndi ulemu waukulu kwa inu nokha.

M’malo mowononga nthawi ndi anthu oipa ndi zinthu zoipa, ndi bwino kuthera nthaŵi yanu pa zinthu zaphindu ndikukhala munthu wabwinopo.

Nthawi yanu ndi yamtengo wapatali, osataya anthu omwe sakuyenera.