Njira yoganizira zonyamula atsikana imakuthandizani kusankha makasitomala apamwamba

Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kuganiza kwa chimango

Kukuthandizani kuti muzisefa makasitomala apamwamba kwambiri

M'nkhani yapitayi,Chen WeiliangGawani"Nanga ena amati ndi okwera mtengo mumayankha bwanji?Njira zoyankhira ndi njira 4 zomwe makasitomala amati ndizokwera mtengo".

M'malo mwake, kuganiza kwa chimango ndikuwunika makasitomala apamwamba kwambiri kudzera pa chimangoChen WeiliangAdzagawana: momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito chimango chamalingaliro kukuthandizani kuyang'ana makasitomala apamwamba.

Pamene tiyambitsa, tiyenera kuuza enawo kuti ndi okwera mtengo kuposa ena, apo ayi zidzapatsa winayo kumverera kuti mukunama kwa iye ndipo simupatsa gulu lina zosankha zokwanira.

anthu ena amateroWechatZogulitsazo zimagulitsidwa pamtengo wokwera kwambiri, ndipo anthu ena amasamala, ndipo ena sangadandaule.

Momwe mungawonere makasitomala?

1. Sikuti ndikugulitsa, koma mugula:Ngati winayo akuganiza kuti ndi okwera mtengo ndipo sakufuna kupangidwa ndi inu, ndiye kuti simukumufuna
   Chojambulacho ndi cholimba ndipo zonse zimasefedwa.
2.  Mental Framework:Sikuti winayo akundisankha, koma ndikusankha mbali inayo. 
3. Gulitsani zinthu kuti musankhe makasitomala (sankhani anthu ovomerezeka):Padziko lonse pali anthu amitundumitundu, m’malo mokopa anthu amene savomereza, ndi bwino kuganizira kwambiri za kupeza anthu ambiri amene amavomereza.

Kunyamula chimango cha atsikana

Mukapita kukayambitsa zokambirana, musaganize monyenga kuti winayo akuvomerani.Kaya winayo acheza nanu kapena ayi, muyeneranso kumupatsa chisankho chokwanira kuti anene.

Pokambirana koyamba, pezani mtsikana wachilendo woti muyambe kukambirana naye, anthu ena amacheza nanu, ndipo ena adzakukanani.Tingoyenera kukhazikitsa chimango, sitipeza anthu omwe amakukanani, timayang'ana omwe sangakukaneni.

1. Mukuti:Kodi ndingakumane nanu?

2. Wina adzafunsa:Chifukwa chiyani tiyenera kukumana?

Mawu onama:Ndikungofuna kuti ndikudziweni.

3. Perekani gulu lina njira zinanso (ndibwino kunena choncho):"Ndikufuna ndikudziweni, ndipo ngati zingatheke m'tsogolomu, ndikufuna kukhala paubwenzi ndi inu."

Pazifukwa izi, ngati winayo akufuna kuyanjana nanu, mutha kulumikizana nanu, mukakana, mutha kugwetsa.Musataye nthawi pamunthuyu.

M'malo mwake, uku ndikuwunika atsikana omasuka.

Ziribe kanthu pamene mukugulitsa katundu kapena kulankhulana ndi anthu, mukuchita zowunikira, ndipo simukufuna anthu omwe sakugwirizana nawo.

Zowawa za kuganiza mosadziwika bwino

Ngati mulibe dongosolo lomveka bwino chotero, mudzakhala omvetsa chisoni kwambiri:

1. Kuchita bwino pang'ono:Chifukwa mumafuna anthu amitundu yonse, zimatenga nthawi yayitali kuti muzichita nawo.

2. Wotopa kwambiri:Dziko lapansi ndi anthu omwe amatsatira lamulo la 80, anthu omwe amakubweretserani 20% ya zotuluka ndi XNUMX% anthu odziwika bwino.
(Popanda dongosololi, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito 80% ya mphamvu zanu kwa anthu omwe sakupanga chilichonse)

3. Kutaya anthu abwino:Chifukwa mawonekedwe anu ndi osokoneza kwambiri, anthu abwinowo akatalikirana ndi inu, mudzakhala bwino; M'malo mwake, ngati mawonekedwe anu ali apamwamba, anthu omwe amabwera amakhala abwinoko.

Ndi chimango chamtundu wanji chomwe muli nacho, mudzakopa anthu otani.

Munthu yemwe ndi waulere komanso wokwera mtengo angaganizenso kuti ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri ngati mupereka chidutswa ichi, pokhapokha ngati ali ndi 1%, sabwera.

Ubwino wa chimango chowunika makasitomala

1. Anthu omwe sali okwera mtengo kwambiri, simumachotsera, adzabwera, kulipira ngongole mosavuta, ndipo khalidweli likadali lalitali, lopanda phokoso, ndipo siliyipitsa tebulo.

(Ndiuzeni, kodi ndi bwino kuchotsera? Kapena ayi? Kodi ndi bwino kugulitsa pamtengo wapamwamba? Kapena kugulitsa pamtengo wotsika?)

2. Ndikhoza kugulitsa chinthu chomwecho pa yuan 5 kapena 25. Ndi ofanana ndendende, koma anthu omwe amabwera kuno ndi osiyana.

3. Zingamveke kuti ndi mtundu wanji wa chimango chomwe chimakhazikitsidwa chidzakopa magulu osiyanasiyana ogwiritsa ntchito.

Milandu Yoganiza Zokhazikika

Kuwunika makasitomala, zofunikira zenizeni ndi zotani? Popanda kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane, imamveka kuti ilibe kanthu.

Kutsatsa PaintanetiOnerani milandu yamakasitomala kaleChen WeiliangZagawidwa, talandiridwa kuti muwerenge nkhaniyi "Momwe mungawonere makasitomala?3 Mfundo zamaganizo zowunikira makasitomala omwe akufuna"^_^