Ziva chokwadi chiri seri kwechikonzero nei mhuri dzepakati nepakati dzichishanda nesimba zvakadaro asi dzisingakwanisi kutevedzera dzidzo yepamusoro

Sei zvakaomera mhuri dzepakati nepakati kudzokorora dzidzo yepamusoro?

Ndeipi fungidziro huru yemhuri dzepakati? Vanofunga kuti chero bedzi vachipa vana vavo zvinhu zvakanakisisa uye dzidzo yepamusorosoro, vachakwanisa kupinda muboka repamusoro mune ramangwana. Asi chokwadi ndechekuti mugwagwa wacho watozara nezvitunha.

Pfungwa yedzidzo yemhuri dzepakati-kati: kushandisa makwikwi kuwana ruremekedzo

Chii chiri musimboti wedzidzo yepakati? Kwira wapererwa. Rega vana vako vapinde mukireshi chepamusoro, vapinde muchikoro chepuraimari chepamusoro, tora mibvunzo yakaoma kwazvo yemasvomhu yeOlympiad, uye vakwikwidze nzvimbo dzinonyanya kutsvakwa dzeIvy League. Iyi nzira inenge yakada kufanana nemararamiro evabereki pachavo: kuchinjana zvidzidzo zvedzidzo kuti vawane mabasa, kuchinjana mabasa kuti varemekedzwe, uye kuvimba nemari yakagadzikana uye zvivako zvekutengesa kuchengetedza manyepo e "social elite."

Chii chavanonyanya kutya? Kudonha. Vanonyatsoziva mitemo yemutambo munharaunda: kana vakasashanda zvakaoma, vanozodzokera shure kana vasina kunaka zvakakwana, vachabviswa. Nokudaro, kunyange kana vana vave vachitambura nekudzidza, vachazviudza kuti: "Nezveramangwana, tinofanira kutsungirira."

Asi mubvunzo ndewokuti, aya ndiwo madzidzisirwe echokwadi evakuru vakuru?

The elite mindset: kutarisa pasi, kwete kukwira

"Ndinoziva kubva pakuva murombo kuenda kumurume mupfumi. Makore asingasviki gumi, ndini ndinenge ndava sabhuku!"

Uyu ndiwo mutsara wekare kubva kuZhang Guoli mufirimu "1942", uye iriwo mafungiro evakuru vepamusoro: vanoziva kubata mikana nekugadzira kukosha, pane kungovimba nehurongwa kuti vazvibhadhare.

Chii chiri musimboti wedzidzo yepamusoro? Hazvisi zvekuwana zvibodzwa zvepamusoro kana madiploma, asi nezvekuvandudza ruzivo rwebhizinesi, hunyanzvi hwekuita sarudzo uye kubatana kwemunhu.

Vakuru vechokwadi havangatarise nezve "nzira yekupinda muchikoro chepamusoro", asi vanozofunga: "Ndingagona sei kugona zviwanikwa uye kupesvedzera mitemo?"

Naizvozvo, marererwo avanoita vana vavo akasiyana zvachose neaya eboka repakati:

• Middle class dzidzo: Shanda nesimba kuti udzidze ruzivo, dzidza nesimba pabvunzo, uye shandisa zvibodzwa zvebvunzo kuratidza kuti unokwanisa kupinda chikoro chakanaka uye kuwana basa rakanaka.
• Elite Dzidzo: Itai kuti vana vabatane nebhizimisi nokukurumidza sezvinobvira, itai kuti vanzwisise misika, uye vadzidze kuwana mikana pane kungoimirira.

Ichi ndicho chikonzero nei vana vazhinji vanobva kumhuri dzevatengesi vangave vakatanga bhizinesi ravo vachiri kuyaruka, nepo vana vanobva kumhuri dzepakati-kati vachiri kubata mazwi nemusoro, vachiita maekisesaizi, uye kutora TOEFL bvunzo.

Musiyano mukuru pakati pemabhizinesi nevashandi: kugona kurwisa njodzi

Vanhu vanoshandaHupenyu, ibhiriji repuranga rinoita serakachengetedzeka: kuva nebasa rakanaka kunogona kuchengetedza hupenyu hwepakati. Asi kana ukangosangana nekudzingwa, indasitiri inoshanduka, matambudziko ehutano ... zvese zvakanaka zvinodonha nekukurumidza.

Izvo zvakasiyana kune vebhizinesi. Panzvimbo pekuisa tariro yavo pabasa rimwe chete, vanovaka nzira dzakawanda dzemari uye vanovimba nemusika kwete mushandirwi mumwe chete.

Taleb inotaurwa muAntifragile:Vanhu vakasimba zvechokwadi havasi avo vanonzvenga njodzi, asi avo vanogona kuwana mikana mumhirizhonga. Uku ndiko kufunga kwakanyanya kwevemabhizinesi - havafungi nezve nzira yekufadza mukuru wavo, asi nezvekutsvaga vatengi nekugadzira kukosha.

Dambudziko rine mhuri dzepakati nderekuti muenzaniso wavo wedzidzo unoburitsa vanotsvaga basa remangwana kwete vatongi venguva yemberi.

Vana vemabhizimisi nevepakati vachave nehupenyu hwakasiyana kana vakura

Kuenzanisa kuri nyore:

• Vana vevatengesi: Kubva ndichiri mudiki, ndakadzidza mafambisirwo ebhizinesi uye kunzwisisa mashandisiro ezviwanikwa kuti ndiwane zvibereko zvakakura.
• Vana vemhuri dzepakati-kati: Dzidza maitiro ekuwana mamakisi epamusoro, kupinda muchikoro chakanaka, uye kuwana basa rinobhadhara zvakanyanya mune ramangwana.

Aya mamodheru maviri akarongerwa kuvatungamira kuhupenyu hwakasiyana zvachose kana vakura. Iwo ekare anoshandiswa kudzora magumo avo, nepo ekupedzisira anogona kungoedza kurarama pasi pemitemo iripo yemutambo.

Chikonzero chikuru nei mhuri dzepakati-kati dzisingakwanise kutevedzera dzidzo yepamusoro

Pakupedzisira, dzidzo yepakati-kati ndeye "nzira yekukunda mukwikwidzi," nepo dzidzo yepamusoro ndeye "maitiro ekugadzira mikana."

Kuti tigadzire mikana, tinofaniraTarisa pasi, kwete kumusoro.

• Middle class inotarisa kumusoro: Vanoda kutevedzera mararamiro emhando yepamusoro, kutenga mabhegi anodhura, uye kudzidza kutasva bhiza, vachifunga kuti izvi zvichavabvumira kuti vaenderane nedenderedzwa revakuru.
• Businessman akatarisa pasi: Vanotarisa zvinodiwa pamusika uye kugadzira zvigadzirwa nemasevhisi kuzadzisa izvo zvinodiwa.

Ichi ndicho chikonzero nei vanhu vazhinji vane bhizinesi rekumashure vachigona kuwana tsoka munharaunda kunyangwe vasina dhigirii kubva kuyunivhesiti ine mukurumbira. Nokuti vanonzwisisa:Hunhu hwenyika ino hausi kuhwina chinzvimbo nebvunzo, asi kuchinjana hunhu.

Dzidzo yechokwadi yevakakwirira inofanira kuva yakaita sei?

Kana mhuri iri pakati nepakati ichinyatsoda kuti vana vayo vave vepamusoro mune ramangwana, chii chavanofanira kuita?

1. Ita bhizinesi kufunga —— Ita kuti vana vanzwisise misika pane kungoita maekisesaizi. Paunenge uchivapa mari yehomwe, usavapa zvakananga, asi regai vawane nzira dze "kuwana" mari, zvakadai sekugadzira danga kana kuita basa renguva pfupi.
2. Kurudzirai kukundikana uye kuedza uye kukanganisa ——Vakuru vechokwadi vanokura kuburikidza nemiedzo isingaverengeki uye kukanganisa. Pane kungowana zvibodzwa zvakakwirira, zvakatonyanya kukosha kudzidza mawaniro ebudiriro mukukundikana.
3. Vaka ruzivo rwenetiweki —— Zviwanikwa zvepasi zvinodzorwa nevanhu vashoma mikana chaiyo inowanzobva “kune waunoziva” pane kuti “mapoinzi mangani aunowana pabvunzo.
4. Rega vana vaone nzira dzehupenyu dzakasiyana —— Usangovaudza kuti “dzidza nesimba, pinda muyunivhesiti yakanaka, uye uwane basa rakanaka”, asi rega vanzwisise kuti vanogona kutanga bhizinesi, kuisa mari, uye kugadzira basa ravo pachavo.

Mhedziso: Chete nekushandura mafungiro ako unogona kushandura mafambiro ako

Pane chirevo chinoti:"Urombo hwakaipisisa hakusi kushayiwa mari, asi urombo hweruzivo."

Chikonzero chinoita kuti zviomere veboka repakati kuti vayambukire kune vepamusoro-soro ndechokuti vachiri kushandisa pfungwa dze“vadzidzi vakanaka” kudzidzisa vana vavo, nepo vakuru chaivo vanoshandisa pfungwa dze“vemabhizimusi” kuumba chizvarwa chinotevera.

Kana iwe uchida kuti vana vako vasununguke kubva mukutenderera kwemukati uye vamire panzvimbo yakakwirira yevanhu, unofanira kubuda mumusungo we "mudzidzi akanaka" kufunga uye kuita kuti vanzwisise zvechokwadi mashandiro anoita nyika.

Mushure mezvose, bvunzo inonyanya kukosha munyika,Hazvisi nezve koreji yekupinda bvunzo, asi nezve maitiro ekuve iye anoita mitemo mumutambo wehupenyu.