Yeyiphi inkcazo yokuvula enokusetyenziswa ukuba ingaliwa?Ukuncokola nomxhasi akunako ukwala into yokuvula

Kuthekani ngengxelo yokuvula engayi kwenza umxhasi ukuba akwale?Decrypt umgaqo osemva kwamandla wamagama ama-2!

• Ukunika eyona ngxelo ikhuselekileyo nelula yokuvula, ukuze ungakhatywa xa ucebisa nayiphi na imbono, imveliso okanye inkonzo kuye nabani na nangaliphi na ixesha.
• Abantu abaninzi abakwazi ukuthengisa iimveliso okanye iinkonzo zabo kwabanye, ngaba uyazi ukuba kutheni?
• awutsho?Awungekhe uthi?

Iimfuno zabantuiphiramidiimodeli

Ukuphanda izizathu ezinzulu, kusenokwahlulwa kwiphiramidi kaMaslow yeemfuno zabantu.

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Ukuba utsho, izinto ezimbini ziya kwenzeka:

1. Elinye iqela liyayamkela imveliso okanye inkonzo yakho kwaye liyihlawulele;
2. Elinye iqela liyalile imveliso okanye inkonzo yakho kwaye likunike isizathu sokuba ukhathazeke.

Umzekelo ndithi kuwe:

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• Unokuthi: Ewe, ndihlawula njani...
• Usenokuthi: Libele kaloku, kukho amaxoki kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye le nto ayithethayo ingcono kunale ayiculayo.Lo gama nje beyifumana loo mali, baza kwenza ngathi abasekho iintsuku ezimbalwa.

Ukuba ngu 2, ukuba nguwe, luluphi utshintsho oluya kwenzeka entliziyweni yakho?

• Impendulo icacile, uziva ubuhlungu, isidima sakho siyathukwa, kwaye ubonwa njengexoki!
• Isizathu sokuba abantu abaninzi basilele ukuthengisa iimveliso okanye iinkonzo zabo silula: Uyoyika ukwaliwa kwaye wenzekalise ukuzithemba kwakho!
• Kukuba woyika iimfuno zakho zenqanaba lesi-4: iimfuno zakho zesidima azifikelelwa, kwaye endaweni yoko uya kwenzakala.

Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okunjalo kukhoUbomiKwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba nje ukulungele ukwabelana nabanye ngezimvo zakho, unenkxalabo enjalo...

Kuthekani ngengxelo yokuvula engayi kwenza umxhasi ukuba akwale?

Enyanisweni, onke amazwi owathethayo yimbewu yobomi bakho.

Ma YunYithi:"Andinamdla kwimali, kodwa ndisenomdla wokusebenzisa imali."

Ndiza kukunika eyona ngxelo ikhuselekileyo nelula yokuvula, ukuze ungaliwa xa ucebisa nayiphi na imbono, imveliso okanye inkonzo kuye nabani na nangaliphi na ixesha:

1. "Andazi ukuba unomdla...kodwa..."
2. "Andazi ukuba unomdla na, ...Intengiso ye-WechatIkhosi encinci ye-lychee ikwi-intanethi, inesaphulelo esilinganiselweyo se-99 yuan, kodwa iintsuku ezintathu kuphela"
3. "Andazi ukuba unomdla ... Kodwa ndicinga ukuba kufuneka ndikwazise. Iipropati ezimbini e-Dongcheng zisanda kuthengiswa ngale ntsasa."
4. "Andiyazi ukuba unomdla, kodwa ... Ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba umgaqo-nkqubo okhethiweyo wenkampani yethu kule nyanga ngumsebenzi omkhulu wokwenza inzuzo kulo nyaka."
5. "Andiyazi ukuba unomdla, kodwa ... ndiyayicinga kwaye ndicinga ukuba le moto ingcono kakhulu kuwe, ngoko ndikubizela"
6. "Andazi ukuba unomdla, kodwa ... kuphela unalo isiqinisekiso. NgoMgqibelo, inkampani iququzelele ukuthatha inxaxheba eShanghai.UFOUmboniso, unalo ixesha? "
7. "Andazi ukuba unomdla na, kodwa ... eli thuba liza kudlula kwinyanga ezayo, ndiyoyika ukuba ungaliphoswa"

Yintoni umphumo wokususa imibuzo kunye nokuthengisa ngokuthe ngqo?

Ukuba ususa "Andazi ukuba unomdla" kwaye uye ngqo kwinkqubo yokuthengisa, kuya kuba yintoni umphumo?

• Uthe ngokuthe ngqo: Molo, i-WeChat yokuthengisa i-lychee micro-course ikwi-intanethi, kwaye iintsuku ezintathu zokuqala zilinganiselwe kwi-99 yuan, ucinga ngayo.
• "Molo, ezi zakhiwo zimbini e-Dongcheng zithengisiwe ngale ntsasa, ngezaphulelo zexesha elincinci ..."
• “Molo, ngalo Mgqibelo inkampani iququzelele ukuthatha inxaxheba eShanghaiUFOUmboniso, unaso esi siqinisekiso, unalo ixesha lokuthatha inxaxheba?”…

Uyicinga engqondweni yakho, xa usiva amagama amabini ahlukeneyo acetyiswayo, ithini impendulo yakho ngokuzenzekelayo?

Enye yezona nyaniso zicacileyo kukuba uninzi lweefowuni ze-spam zangoku ziqala ngo "molo", kwaye xa usiva molo, impendulo yakho ezenzekelayo kukuxhoma nje.

Indlela yokuvuselela umdla

1. Xa ninxibelelana, qalani nithi "Andazi ukuba unomdla..."
2. Emva koko yima uze ulindele ukusabela komnye umntu;
3. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ulwimi lomnye umntu luyakuvakalisa ukuba uqhubeke uthetha, okanye usebenzisa izimbo zomzimba ezinjengamehlo nezimbo zomzimba ukubonisa ukuba uyaqhubeka ukuthetha, uya kuqhubeka ukuthetha la magama alandelayo.

Emva kokwazi isiphumo kunye nendlela yokusetyenziswa, into ekufuneka uyazi ngumgaqo osemva kwayo:

Qala incoko ngokuthi "Andazi ukuba unomdla", kwaye impendulo ezenzekelayo kwingqondo yomnye umntu ithi:Khange andifakele ipressure.

• Kwangaxeshanye, ingcebiso yakho ngokwasengqondweni kwelinye iqela yile:Ndinokuba nomdla okanye ndingabi nawo, yintoni?
• Kweli nqanaba uye wavusa ngempumelelo umdla womnye umntu.
• Ke elinye iqela liya kukuphawula ngokulula ukuba uqhubeke.

Ngawaphi amagama amabini anamandla?

Nangona kunjalo, nje ukuba elinye iqela likushukumisela ukuba uqhubeke,Awona magama mabini anamandla kulwimi lwakho, "kodwa", anefuthe elikhulu.

Khumbula ukusetyenziswa kuka "kodwa" kweli nqaku?

Njengokuthi, umhlobo wakho uthi kuwe:

"Unesibindi, unomsindo, kwaye unomnqweno onamandla wokuphumelela. Nangona kunjalo, awunalo umkhwa wokubona kwangaphambili, ngoko udla ngokwenza iimpazamo ezinkulu."

• Ngaba ukhumbula nje "ukunqongophala kwengcinga, iimpazamo ezinkulu", ulwazi olubi?
• Ngenxa yeenzuzo, iye yakhatywa ngokupheleleyo ngu "kodwa"!

Ngoko, xa uthi kumxhasi, "Andazi ukuba unomdla, kodwa ...",

Elinye iqela sele linesimo sengqondo esilungileyo kumagama akho alandelayo ngokungenangqondo, kwaye uthetha ngaye: Kodwa ... ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nomdla!

Elinye iqela alikwazi ukulinda engqondweni yakhe: "Yiza, awukwazi ukuba ndinomdla, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba kufuneka ndibe nomdla!"

Sebenzisa izivula ezingakhatywanga kangako,Uba yintoni umphumo?

Uya kuba yintoni umphumo wale nto yokuvula ukuba uthelekiso aluyi kukhatywa?

Uphumelele ukuvelisa umdla kunye nokuvusa umdla wabo:

• Uya kugxininisa kwinto oza kuyithetha ngokulandelayo, ngaphandle kokuzikhusela!
• Usenokuthi: Kulungile, ndiza kucinga ngayo! (Ngenxa yokuba amazwi akho angumbuzo, i-subconscious yakhe iyamkhuthaza ukuba akuphendule)
• Emva kokuphulaphula intshayelelo, wakuphendula wathi: Owu, oku, andinamdla okwangoku.

Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlobo luni lwesiphumo, ufumene ngokupheleleyo ulwazi lwakho lokucebisa!

Eli nqaku "Yeyiphi ingxelo yokuvula ekufuneka ndiyisebenzise ukuze ndingaliwa?Esi sisiphelo sokuncokola nabathengi abanako ukwala amazwi okuvula.