Uwusebenzisa njani uMthetho woMtsalane?Ipsychology yothando phakathi kwesini esahlukileyo

Imibini yemibuzo eqhelekileyo malunga noMthetho wokutsala:

1. Kutheni le nto uMthetho woMtsalane ungasebenzi kubudlelwane kunye nobudlelwane?
2. Kwaye kutheni ungatsali abantu obafunayo?

Iyintoni imfihlelo yomthetho wokutsala umdla?

Xa ukwimo embi, qiniseka ukuba uyibukele le vidiyo ikhuthazayoIMfihlo yoMthetho weMovie enomtsalane ▼

Ebizwa ngokuba yividiyo ye-Tencent, okanye unokujonga kuqala kwimizuzu emi-5, indlela yokubukela inguqulelo epheleleyo ye "Imfihlo"?

1. Khuphela kwaye ufake i- "Tencent Video" APP kwifowuni yakho ephathekayo.
2. Khangela amagama angundoqo kwi-Tencent Video APP: "当你心情不好的时候一定要看看这个励志视频秘密 吸引力法则"

• Emva kokuba uyibukele, ungashiya umyalezo kwaye undixelele iingcinga zakho ^_^

• Imfihlo yimuvi ka-2006 "yokuzinceda".
• Ifilimu ibonisa umbono wokuba wonke umntu unokufumana oko akufunayo ukuba ukholelwa ukuba unako.
• Umbono ophambili wefilimu ngumthetho kaRhonda Byrne wokutsala umdla.
• Ifilimu yakhululwa ngaxeshanye njengenguqulelo yencwadi enegama elifanayo, kwaye le ncwadi igqwesile kuluhlu lweNew York Times.

Kutheni umthetho wokutsalwa kothando ungasebenzi?

Kukho izizathu ezi-3 eziphambili zokuba kutheni umnqweno wakho ungafezeki:

1. bandakanya ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabanye.
2. Ukuphindaphinda komnye nomnye kuyahluka.
3. Unqwenela ngengqondo yokunqongophala.

bandakanya abanye

Xa ufuna ukutsala umntu othile ngoMthetho wokutsala umdla, sele ubandakanya ukuthatha inxaxheba kwelinye iqela:

• Oko kukuthi, amandla elinye iqela (iingcinga, iimvakalelo, intetho, njl.) liya kuchaphazela inkqubela yomnqweno wakho.
• Kwintsimi yakho, unokwenza oku ngokubhala iijenali ezikhangayo, ukwenzaukucamngca, hlala usebenza okanye u-hypnotize ukuseta kwakhona i-subconscious yakho.

Zonke ezi zilungile, kodwa ingxaki kukuba iminqweno yakho ayikho "eyakho" kuphela, kodwa nomntu ofuna ukutsala, ingqondo yakhe engaphantsi kwengqondo ayikwazi ukutshintshwa nabani na ngaphandle kwakhe.

Ke ngoko, ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha i-subconscious yelinye iqela, iminqweno yakho ayinakubonakaliswa.

Wena kunye nelinye iqela nineefrikhwensi ezahlukeneyo

Xa uqala ukwenza umnqweno, omnye umntu kufuneka ukuba ushiye imvakalelo enzulu kuwe, okanye umnike iileyibhile ezithile, ezinjengokuthi: "ithenda kunye nenkathalo".

• Ekusebenziseni uMthetho woMtsalane, uqinisa ezi lebhile ngaxeshanye.
• Enyanisweni, into esiyibonayo ayiphelelanga, elinye iqela aliyiyo le nto ucinga ngayo.
• I-frequency yakhe ayihambelani ne-frequency ofuna ukuyitsala.

Undoqo womthetho wokutsala umdla:Amandla amatyeli afanayo atsala omnye komnye.

• Ke ngoko, lo mnqweno wawungaphumeleli kwasekuqaleni.

Unqwenela ngengqondo yokunqongophala

Kwiimvakalelo zethu, silangazelela ukuzaliseka nokusindiswa ngenxa yokuswela nokunganeliseki kwethu.

• Ngokufuthi silindele ukuba omnye umntu abe ngumhlanguli, silindele ukuba omnye umntu asizisele uthando, yaye ngalo lonke ixesha sifuna ukufumana uthando komnye umntu, kungekhona ukunika uthando.
• Ukuba wenza umnqweno ngolu hlobo lokungabikho kwengqondo, oko kuthetha ukuba awuzange ufunde ukuzithanda kuqala, amandla othando aswele, kwaye amandla okungoneliseki, ukuzithemba nokungabi naxabiso kuyakhululwa.
• Emva koko, kufuneka utsale amandla alinganiselweyo, angathandwayo.

Indlela yokusebenzisa umthetho weemfihlelo ezikhangayo

Ngenxa yazo zonke ezi zizathu zingasentla, iminqweno yethu ayinakufezekiswa, ngoko sinokwenza ntoni ukuze sifumane uthando olulungileyo?

Funda ukuzithanda kuqala

Okona kubaluleke kakhulu: kufuneka uqale ufunde ukuzithanda.

• Wonke umntu unamandla okuzithanda.
• Ukuba awukwazi ukuzithanda, ungabathanda njani abanye kwaye unokukhulula njani amandla othando?
• Sebenza kuMthetho woMtsalane:Ungatsala njani amandla othando ukuba awuyikhuphi?

Musa ukuzama ukutsala abantu abathile

Okwesibini, musa ukuzama ukubhenela kubantu abathile.

Chen WeiliangNantsi iyacetyiswa:

1. Chonga iimpawu zomntu omthandayo.
2. Emva koko uye kutsala abantu abanolu phawu, vumela eyakhoUbomiAbahlobo abaninzi abatsha bayavela, besandisa ukhetho lwakho.

• Ukuba unamathele kakhulu kumntu othile kangangokuba awukwazi ukumyeka, zama ukubhala phantsi iimpawu zomntu omthandayo ephepheni, nganye idweliswe ngokucacileyo.
• Umzekelo: uthanda omnye umntu ukuba abe nethemba kwaye abe nethemba yonke imihla, kwaye lonke uncumo olusuka entliziyweni lunokukuzisela ukukhanya kwelanga kunye nokufudumala.

Kweli nqanaba, zibuze:

"Ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndifumane i-frequency yakhe?
Kwaye ndingazigcina njani ndikwi-frequency efanayo njengamandla akhe? "

• Xa usebenzisa le ndlela yokucinga ukusebenzisa umthetho wokutsala umdla, uya kufumanisa ukuba njengoko amandla akho esomelela, ngakumbi nangakumbi abantu abagqwesileyo baya kutsaleleka kancinci kubomi bakho.

Khumbula: sukuzibekela umda kwindawo yakho yokujonga.

• Ihlabathi likhulu, kwaye unamathuba amaninzi nangaphezulu.

Umthetho wokutsalwa kothando

1. hlala kude namandla angalunganga
2. Into oyifunayo, yinike kuqala.

Nika into oyifunayo

Isazi ngengqondo, ngelixa sicebisa intombazana efuna ukuba nobudlelwane, yambuza:

Ingaba ufuna ntoni?

Omnye wathi:Ndifuna uthando oluninzi.

Isayikholojisti yamcebisa ukuba:Uqala ukuya kwikhaya labalupheleyo ukuze wenze umsebenzi wokuzithandela, kwaye unike uthando oluninzi kuqala.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, intombazana yakhawuleza yadibana nothando lwakhe - lokwenene.

• Kungakhathaliseki ukuba intombazana yenza umsebenzi wokuzithandela, izixhobo zayo zothando ziswele okanye zininzi.
• Kwinkqubo yokuzithandela, uye wondliwa luthando ngenxa yothando lwakhe olupheleleyo kunye nenkathalo yakhe.
• Ekubeni ekhupha amandla othando, uba nomtsalane kakhulu kwaye uyaphumelela ekutsaleni uthando olufunwayo.

Sonke siyathanda, kwaye ndiyamthanda nje.Emva koko uye womeleza iimvakalelo zakho, iimvakalelo onazo kunye naye:

• Xa umphekela, uncumo lwakhe lufana nentyatyambo, uyakunikabonwabileimvakalelo yolonwabo
• Uhamba esitratweni ebambene nawe ngezandla, kwaye uya konwaba kakhulu ubomi bakhe bonke.

我向iphelaIodolo ifakiwe:Ndathi ndiyamthanda, ndimthanda kamnandi kakhulu, lendoda ingandinika ulonwabo.

• Emva koko wandithanda nyani.
• Ebendithengela amayeza abandayo ngentsimbi yesibini ekuseni, bekusebusika kwaye kuyabanda;
• Wandibiza xa wayekuhambo lomsebenzi, wandicela ukuba nditye ngokuthobela ndize nditshixe ucango;
• Undinike isipho seKrisimesi, isifudumezi sehagu emnyama namhlophe ukuze ndifudumale xa engekho...
• Siza kutshata.

Ukuzicebisa usebenzisa uMthetho woMtsalane

Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukuphucula ukusebenza kakuhle komsebenzi.

Ungaphinda i-autosugges ngolu hlobo:

"Ukubulawa kwam komelele kakhulu kwaye ndingenza yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo"

Ngaba le yenye yezo autosuggestions sizenzayo?

Oku kulandelayoindlela yokuzicebisa:

• "Ndiba krelekrele nangakumbi"
• "Ukubulawa kwam komelele kakhulu kwaye ndingenza yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo"
• "Kholwa ngamandla akho, unokwenzeka, yonke into inokwenzeka"

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Uwusebenzisa njani uMthetho woMtsalane?Oku ngasentla kuyimfihlelo malunga nesayikholoji yothando phakathi kwabantu besini esahlukileyo,Ndiyathemba iyakunceda ^_^