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Dibana nemiqathango emi-3 ukuze ufumane uncedo kubahlobo
Izolo ndifake isicelo sonxibelelwanozokuzonwabisaKwakukho into engalunganga ngeakhawunti yam kwinqanaba lokugqibela, kwaye ndiye ndasilela ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zesicelo Kwaba ngathi ndiza kunyamalala emhlabeni, haha!
Kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba kukho iindlela ezininzi kunobunzima.Ndikhawuleze ndacinga ukuba ndingacela umhlobo wam andincede ndiphumelele le meko yesicelo.Ndiyavuya kuba abanye abahlobo bazimisele ukundinceda ndiphumelele le meko.
Enyanisweni, nokuba yi-self-media okanyeWechat, benza abahlobo, yaye ukuba ujamelana neengxaki ongenakukwazi ukuzicombulula ngokwakho, unokucela abahlobo bakho bakuncede uzicombulule.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sicela uncedo kubahlobo, kwaye abahlobo banokungavumelani, kuba abantu banobugovu kwaye bafuna inzuzo, kodwa nje ukuba iimeko ezithile zidibene, abahlobo baya kusinceda.
Ngaphaya koko, zininzi izinto esifuna ukuzenza zinemiqathango.Xa udibana neengxaki, nceda ucinge ngayo:Ziziphi izinto ezifunekayo ukuze ndenze oku kakuhle?
Emva koko, zama ukufumana indlela yokuyanelisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Chen Weiliangisishwankathelo
Ngapha koko, ukuba nje ezi meko zilandelayo zifezekisiwe, unokufumana uncedo kubahlobo xa udibana neengxaki:
- 1. Elinye iqela linamandla okusombulula le ngxaki.
- 2. Siye sancedana ( sinikele ngexabiso omnye komnye).
- 3. Yiba nobudlelwane bomdla kunye nelinye iqela (eyona ndlela ilula yokuyicombulula ngemali).
Ndiyathemba Chen Weiliang Blog ( https://www.chenweiliang.com/ ) wabelane "uChen Weiliang: Thina-abantu bemidiya sinokufumana njani uncedo kubahlobo?Unokufumana uncedo kubahlobo bakho ukuba udibana neemeko ezi-3", okuya kukunceda.
Wamkelekile ukwabelana ngekhonkco leli nqaku:https://www.chenweiliang.com/cwl-192.html