Isalathiso senqaku
Indlela yokuchonga abantu abangathembekanga ngexesha elifutshane?
Ukutyhubela iminyaka, ndenze utyalo-mali oluncinci kumashishini.
Ndikhe ndeva iintlungu kwaye ndikhathazwa ngabantu abaninzi abangathembekanga.
Ngoku shwankathela amava angaphambili kunye nezifundo zokukunceda ukuba ugwebe ukuba umntu unokuthenjwa na ngexesha elifutshane?
Le ndlela yeyokufundisa indlela yokugweba kwisigaba sokuqala, nangona xa udibana okokuqala, kuba kusenokuba kusemva kwexesha ukuhlawula i-tuition ngelo xesha.
ezilandelayoIndlela yokuthintela uhlalutyo lwesishwankathelo sobuqhetseba, inokukunceda:
Ngaba iqabane likwixesha leedinga?
Intsebenziswano imalunga nomoya wekhontrakthi.
Ukuba umntu akakwazi nokwenza eyona nto isisiseko yokubamba ixesha, oko kunokuthetha kuphela ukuba akathembekanga okanye akakuxabisi, ngoko akukho mfuneko yentsebenziswano.
Jonga kwimbali yeqabane kunye namava adlulileyo
Indlela yokuchonga ukuba iqabane loshishino lithembekile?
Ngaphambi kokuba uthethe malunga nentsebenziswano yezoshishino phakathi kwamaqela amabini, unokumbuza ukuba wenze ntoni ngaphambili kwaye ngaba kukho nawuphi na umphumo?
Ukuba akukho nto ihamba kakuhle kumava akhe angaphambili, ngokufuthi utyhola le ngxaki kwabanye, ngokuqhelekileyo abangathembekanga.
Musa ukulindela ukuba uya kusilela ukusebenzisana nabanye, kodwa ngaba unokuphumelela nawe?
Buza iinkcukacha, jonga emehlweni
Xa umntu echaza into ethile, unokucela iinkcukacha, ngakumbi umbuzo ocacileyo, ungcono.
Emva koko ujonge emehlweni akhe, amadoda okanye abafazi abangathembekanga banokuthetha kakhulu xa beqhayisa, kodwa xa bebuzwa malunga neenkcukacha, ngokuqhelekileyo banamehlo angaqhelekanga kunye nentetho engahambelaniyo.
Ngaba intetho iphelele?
Umntu ongathembekanga udla ngokuthetha ngokukhululeka.Uyakwazi ukumbambazela isifuba sakhe kwaye athethe into, kuba akazange enze nantoni na kwaye ucinga ukuba yonke into ilula kakhulu.
Izinto ezenziwe ngabantu abathembekileyo, baya kuthetha kakhulu malunga nezinto ezifunekayo, iingozi, ezinye iindlela, njl.
Kufuneka silumke kwaye silumke ngakumbi abo "baqinisekisa izifuba zabo" kwaye bathethe ngokungqongqo kakhulu.
nceda ukhumbule:Konke ukunyaniseka lixoki, yaye zonke izithembiso neziqinisekiso zizidenge.
Yonke imihla xa uvuka, cula ezi zivakalisi zintathu zilandelayo:
- Ungaze uyeke ukuphaphama kwakho, uya kuqhatheka ukuba uyayekelela, kwaye kufuneka uzilumkele ukuphoxa xa umntu ethetha.
- Bonke abo banihlonelayo nabanoyikayo bangamaxoki, yaye injongo yazo zonke izithembiso ezinyanisekileyo neziqinisekiso kukuze balahlekiswe abantu.
- Musa ukulwa amadabi angaqinisekanga, lumkela imigibe yobusi.
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