Ungazitsaleli phantsi kubantu abangafanelanga abantu abahlakaniphileyo bayazi indlela yokuyeka ilahleko ngexesha!

Ngaba usachitha ixesha namandla akho ebantwini abangaxabisekanga? Abantu abahlakaniphileyo bayayazi indlela yokumisa ilahleko ngexesha kwaye bahlale kude nabantu ababakhuphayo! Eli nqaku likufundisa indlela yokuchonga "abantu ababi", urhoxe ngokukhawuleza kubo, uphephe ukudinwa ngokweemvakalelo, wenze ubomi bakho bube lula kwaye bukhululeke ngakumbi. Kuphela ngokufunda ukuyeka ukuhamba unokufikelela ekuzikhuliseni!

Ngaba wakha wadibana nomntu owathi, nangona ngokucacileyo yayiyingxaki yakhe, wagqiba ekucaphukiseni kangangokuba awukwazi ukulala?

Usenokungaqondwa kakuhle, ucatshukiswe, uxhatshazwe, okanye ude utyholwe ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ufuna ukucacisa, ukuphikisa, ukufuna ubulungisa, kodwa okukhona uzabalaza ngakumbi, kokukhona udinwa ngakumbi, kwaye unokude utsalwe phantsi kwinqanaba elifanayo lelinye iqela kwaye ube ngoyena mntu umthiyayo kakhulu.

Musa ukukhohliswa.

Abanye abantu abalifanelanga kwaphela ixesha lakho, ungasathethi ke ngokuhlawulela amazwi nezenzo zabo.

Azifanelanga ukuba zichaphazele umoya wakho

UbomiEhlabathini, kuya kuhlala kukho abantu abambalwa abathanda ukufumana iimpazamo, abathanda ukucinezela, nabathanda ukungathandi abanye.

Basenokuba ngugxa wakho okufutshane nawe, osoloko ekuphoxisa kwaye ongakwaziyo ukumelana nawe usenza kakuhle.
Inokuba ligorha lekhibhodi kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo oxhokonxa ingxabano kunye nokusasaza amandla angalunganga.
Isenokuba ngumhlobo ozingcayo okukhangela kuphela xa ekudinga.

Ubukho bazo abuthethi ukuba kufuneka uphenjelelwe ngabo.

Xa unomsindo, ulusizi,iphitheneKodwa khumbula, ukuvavanya kwabo akulitshintshi ixabiso lakho lokwenene. Ububi babo abunakumisela indlela ovakalelwa ngayo.

Akanalungelo lokundiphembelela, akandifanelanga.

Okukhona ubhijela, kokukhona uphulukana nexabiso

Ngaba wakha waba nalo umzuzu?

Ngenye imini, umntu wathetha into engathandekiyo kuwe, kwaye wawungenakukwazi ukudlula kuyo, kwaye waqhubeka ucinga ngayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye uphinda uhlaziye engqondweni yakho amaxesha amaninzi "indlela yokuphendula", nto leyo eyenza ukuba ucaphuke kwaye ungaphumli.

Kodwa ngaba ukhe wacinga——Okukhona ubeka amandla angakumbi ekuwenzeni unzulu, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba baphumelele?

Abanye abantu baxhomekeke ekudaleni ungquzulwano ukwenza ubukho babo buvakale Okukhona uxoxa nabo, kokukhona bonwaba.

Abakhathali ngengqiqo, bakhathalele iimvakalelo zabo kuphela. Xa uqiqa nabo, kufana nokudlalela inkomo ilute, yaye ekugqibeleni uya kudlala ngexesha lakho.

Abantu abahlakaniphileyo abayi kuchitha ixesha kumadabi angenantsingiselo anjalo Bayazi eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuzilwela kukuba-.Musa ukuphendula, ungakhathali, ungachithi okwesibini kubantu abangasifanelanga.

Ungavumeli abantu abangabalulekanga bachaphazele imeko yakho

Nizele ukuphila ubomi benu, kungekhona ukukholisa wonke umntu.

Ihlabathi likhulu kakhulu, kwaye baninzi abantu abafanelwe yinkathalo yakho kunye noxabiso.

Kufuneka ugxininise kwizinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene, kunokuba unikele ingqalelo kumazwi angenamsebenzi.

Xa uqala ukungabakhathaleli abo bangafanelekanga, uya kufumanisa ukuba ihlabathi liyazola ngephanyazo kwaye ingqondo yakho ikhululeke ngakumbi.

Funda ukubavimba kwaye ungavumeli ukuba bathathe ubomi bakho

Ukuphepha njani ukuchaphazeleka?

• Ziqhelise Ukungahoyi —— Ayinguye wonke umntu oyifaneleyo impendulo yakho, ukubanqanda kulula njengokuvala ispem.
• Gxininisa ebantwini nakwizinto ezibalulekileyo —— Ixesha namandla akho alinganiselwe, kutheni ungawachitheli kubantu okubafaneleyo?
• Ziphucule —— Xa usiba namandla kwaye uzithemba ngakumbi, uya kufumanisa ukuba abo bantu bagxekayo abanakuphinda bakuchaphazele konke konke.

Kukho intetho ethi:"Musa ukuhoya inja ekhonkothayo, kwaye musa ukuphikisana namazwi abantu."

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuphila ubomi bakho kakuhle.

Isiphelo: Akukho bulungisa ingako ehlabathini, kuphela urhwebo

Abanye abantu bayabuza: “Kutheni amalungisa esoloko esenzakala? Kutheni abantu abangendawo besoloko bephumelela?

Kuba umhlaba awulunganga, kodwa ungakhetha indawo yakho yokulwa.

Unokukhetha ukuzibophelela kubo ubomi bakho bonke, okanye unokukhetha ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwaye ugxile ekukhuleni kwakho.

Ukuyeka abantu abangafanelekanga yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe.

Endaweni yokuchitha ixesha kubantu ababi nakwizinto ezimbi, kungcono ukuchitha ixesha lakho kwizinto ezixabisekileyo kwaye ube ngumntu ongcono.

Ixesha lakho lixabisekile, musa ukulichitha ebantwini abangalifanelanga.