Isalathiso senqaku
- 1 Ukuphumelela intliziyo yomntwana kukuphumelela isipaji sentsapho
- 2 Ukuloba echibini: oku kuyimfihlo kwi-traffic ephezulu
- 3 Ngaba kufanelekile ukutshintshisa intlanzi ngoncumo?
- 4 Kutheni imarike yabantwana "ithuba elizinzileyo lokwenza imali"?
- 5 Intengiso yokutyela ebantwaneni iyasebenza ngokuphindwe kali-100 kunokwazisa izibini
- 6 Abantwana "bayi-vane yomoya" yeshishini lanamhlanje
- 7 Ikamva leshishini "luqoqosho lwamava abantwana"
- 8 Isiphelo: Abantwana bayinjini yeshishini, hayi indima exhasayo
- 9 Isishwankathelo sokugqibela
Lowo uphumeleleyo abantwana uphumelela ihlabathi: Isiseko salo lonke ishishini silele ekuhlekeni "kweentsana".
Ngamanye amaxesha, ingundoqo yeshishini ayikho kwinzuzo, kodwa ngokuhleka kwabantwana.
Kutshanje, umhlobo wam uze nabantwana bakhe abathathu kwipaki eyenziweyo yokusefa yangaphandle. Ukunyaniseka, andizange ndibone abantu abadala abaninzi besefa. Yayingabantwana bonke ababebaleka kwaye betsiba-tsiba ngathi ziimoto ezincinci eziboshiweyo.
Abantwana abathathu bosapho lomhlobo wam bagxalathelana emanzini isithuba esingaphezu kweyure, ubuso babo bubomvu neentamo ezityebileyo, yaye abazange bavume ukuya elunxwemeni.
Umhlobo wam wayemi ecaleni kwam, esebenza njengonogada kunye ne-parasol, ejonge ukuhamba kwabantu, ingqondo yakhe izele yimibono yezoshishino.
Ukuphumelela intliziyo yomntwana kukuphumelela isipaji sentsapho

Ingaba uyazi?
Kwezo paki zokuzonwabisa, iindawo zokutyela, kunye nezokhenketho ezinokuthi zenze abantwana badanduluke bathi "Wow" kwaye bangavumi ukuhamba, abazali baya kuvula izikhwama zabo ngokuzithandela.
Asikokubaxa, yinyaniso.
Abantwana bafana “nomphathi-mkhosi” wentsapho. Naphi na apho bakhotha khona, abazali kufuneka balandele baze benze unothanda.
Ngokukodwa ehlotyeni, xa imozulu ishushu njenge-wok, kuya kuthathwa njengentlonelo ukuba abantwana abatsibeki emanzini.
Ngeli xesha, okoko nje uzama ukuzama into entsha, abazali baya kufola ngokwenene ukukunika imali.
Ukuloba echibini: oku kuyimfihlo kwi-traffic ephezulu
Ucinga ukuba ukusefa okwenziwayo kuyonwabisa ngokwaneleyo?
Kungenxa yokuba awukayiboni "ichibi eliphambeneyo lokubambisa iintlanzi" okwangoku.
Ininzi yeentlanzi zaqubha ngokungadinwa, kodwa zazimiselwe ukuba zingabi nandawo yokubalekela.
Ngoba? Ngenxa yokuba i-pool ayinkulu, kodwa kukho abantwana abaninzi, njengeqela labazingeli abancinci abajikelezayo echibini, indawo igcwele ngokupheleleyo.
Umntwana owabamba intlanzi wayebhalwe ebusweni bakhe ukuba “Ndiyintshatsheli”.
Abo bangazibambisanga iintlanzi nabo baba nesibindi ngakumbi kulo mvuyo.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba la mava anomlingo kangakanani? Kungcono kakhulu kunezo ndlela "zamaBhuda" zokudlala ukuloba okanye ukubamba iintlanzi.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukutshintshisa intlanzi ngoncumo?
Iintlanzi esizibambisayo zinokuziswa ekhaya kwaye ziqholwe ngabazali bethu, kwaye incasa iya kuba nevumba "elineziqhamo".
Kubasebenzi, ukubambisa intaphane yeentlanzi ngosuku kubiza amakhulu ambalwa eeyuan, kodwa emva koko bafumana amabuyelo kunye nodumo oluhle kumakhulu eentsapho.
Olu lolona "lwezoqoqosho lwabantwana" lokwenyani:
Sebenzisa intlanzi enye ukubamba imarike yonke.
Kutheni imarike yabantwana "ithuba elizinzileyo lokwenza imali"?
Izibini? Owu, "ngabasebenzisi beflash".
Nditya kwindawo yakho yokutyela namhlanje, kwaye ndijonge enye indawo yokutyela esanda kuvulwa ngomso. Izinga lokuthenga kwakhona liphantsi ngendlela ehlekisayo.
Kodwa abazali akunjalo.
Abazali bafuna "ukhuseleko, uxolo lwengqondo, kwaye abantwana bayathanda ukuhamba".
Ucinga ukuba ukhona umzali onomntwana onokuthi, "Siqhelene kakhulu nale ndawo, masiye kwenye"?
Ngokwahlukileyo koko, banethemba lokuba le ndawo iya kuhlala ifikelela oko kulindelwe ngabantwana babo ngalo lonke ixesha beyityelela.
Ke ngoko, bakuba boyisiwe abantwana, abazali ngokwemvelo baya kuba ngabalandeli abathembekileyo, kwaye isantya sokuthenga kwakhona siya kuba phezulu.
Intengiso yokutyela ebantwaneni iyasebenza ngokuphindwe kali-100 kunokwazisa izibini
Kutheni le nto uninzi lweevenkile zokutyela ngoku ziqala ukunika ukutya kwabantwana kunye neendawo zabantwana?
Kuba oosomashishini abakrelekrele bonke baqonda into enye:
Izibini zitrafikhi, abantwana bayancamathela.
Isibini sinokuyitya kube kanye, kodwa umntwana usenokuyirhuqa yonke intsapho ukuze ayitye izihlandlo ezilishumi.
Ukuba unika abantwana isizathu, baya kuba "iibhilibhodi" ezincinci ngokuzenzekelayo.
Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni womntwana okwisikolo sabantwana abancinane esithi, "Ndibambe intlanzi izolo ndaza ndatya abantwana. Bekumnandi!"
Oku kusebenza ngakumbi kunokuchitha i-yuan eyi-10,000 ukuthenga intengiso kwi-WeChat Moments.
Abantwana "bayi-vane yomoya" yeshishini lanamhlanje
Ngaba uyafuna ukwenza imali ezinzileyo?
Emva koko kufuneka ubeke iliso kuburharha bomntwana.
Ngaba ufuna ireyithi yokuthenga kwakhona ephezulu?
Emva koko kufuneka ufunde "i-addiction mechanism" yabantwana.
Enoba kudlala emanzini, kubanjiswa iintlanzi, okanye kukutya kwabantwana, kwiipaki zabazali nabantwana, eneneni, bonke bathetha into enye:
Lowo uzuza iintliziyo zabantwana uya kuloyisa ihlabathi.
Kule mihla, abantu abaninzi basajonge izibini ukuba zivule "iivenkile zedessert" okanye "iivenkile zeti yobisi abadumileyo kwi-Intanethi", kodwa baphela bephola emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa.
Abo benza imali ngokwenene ngoosomashishini abakwaziyo "ukubamba abantwana."
Ikamva leshishini "luqoqosho lwamava abantwana"
Ukuba usacinga malunga nendlela yokutsala abantu abadala ngezaphulelo, ngoko UPHUMILE.
Elona thuba lifumaneka kwindlela yokwenza abantwana bonwabe, batye kakuhle, kwaye bakukhumbule xa begoduka.
Sebenzisa "amava" ukutshixa intliziyo yomntwana,
Sebenzisa "ilizwi lomlomo" ukutshixa imali yabazali,
Le yikhowudi engundoqo yeshishini kweli nqanaba.
Ukuqala "kuqoqosho oluthanda abantwana", kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe usakha i-ecology evaliweyo yeendlela zokusetyenziswa, uya kufumanisa ukuba itrafikhi iya kuza ngokwemvelo kwaye inzuzo iya kungena ngokwendalo.
Isiphelo: Abantwana bayinjini yeshishini, hayi indima exhasayo
Ngeli xesha, eyona njini inamandla yokuthenga ayingobazali abakumgangatho ophakathi, okanye "iGeneration Z" ethe phithi yinkangeleko, kodwa "amagqabantshintshi amancinci" angahoywanga.
Banomdla wemvelo wokunikela ingqalelo, banomtsalane onamandla, yaye—amandla okuthenga entsebenziswano epheleleyo yabazali babo.
Ukuba uyawabamba, uya kubamba ijelo lokusetyenziswa kwetsheyini yosapho lonke.
Kweli xesha lanamhlanje lokunqongophala kwengqalelo, ziibrendi kuphela ezinokwenza abantwana bakhwaze ezinokunxibelelana ngokwenene nentengiso.
Ishishini elishushu elithengiswayo kwixesha elizayo aliyi kuthembela kwi-traffic, kodwa kwi "stickiness".
Isishwankathelo sokugqibela
- Imisebenzi yabantwana efana nokusefa kunye nokuloba idumile ehlotyeniukukhupha amanziIsixhobo esibukhali
- Ukubamba iintliziyo zabantwana ngundoqo wokoyisa ukusetyenziswa kwentsapho
- Amava okubambisa iintlanzi echibini abukhali ngakumbi kunemisebenzi yemveli yomzali nomntwana
- Iphakheji yabantwana + amava omzali-omntwana ukunyusa izinga lokuthenga kwakhona kunye nodumo
- Izibini azinyanisekanga, kodwa abazali babambelele ngokuqinileyo
- Ukuphindaphinda iiprojekthi zabantwana eziphumeleleyo kwezinye izixeko lithuba lamathuba
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