Isikhokelo Esipheleleyo Sokuguqula Utshintsho: Ingcaciso Eneenkcukacha Ngeendlela ZikaTrump Eziphumelelayo, Ukusuka Kulungiselelo Lwengqondo ukuya Kwizicelo Zeshishini Ezisebenzayo

Icebo likaTrump lokuphumelela: Ingcinga yokuguqula ilahleko ibe yimpumelelo

Ukuphumelela akubhekiselele kwisiphumo, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwindlela ocinga ngayo.

Yintoni "iZifundo eziPhumelelayo"?

Igama elithi "iSayensi ePhumelelayo" livela kwindlela uTrump ajonga ngayo ulawulo.IfilosofiNokuba iziphumo zithini na, uhlala ekwazi ukuqondisa incoko ngokuthi "Ndiphumelele."

Le ndlela yokucinga, xa ijongwa phezulu, ibonakala ngathi iyazilungiselela, kodwa eneneni yindlela yokuzilungisa ngokwengqondo. Igcina umntu engqondweni "yomphumeleli", ithintela ukungaphumeleli ekumoyiseni.

Uphando lwezengqondo lubonisa ukuba ukulungiswa kwengqondo okuhle kunokunciphisa kakhulu amanqanaba okuxhalaba kunye nokudakumba (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Handbook, Oxford University Press). Ngamanye amazwi, ngokujonga iingxaki ngembono eyahlukileyo, ungaguqula ukusilela kube ngamava kunye nokubuyela umva kube kukukhula.

Kutheni abantu abaqhelekileyo nabo kufuneka bafunde indlela yokuphumelela?

UbomiEbomini, sihlala sidibana neengxaki. Ukuwa emsebenzini, ukukhungatheka ngokweemvakalelo, ukungaqondwa kakuhle... ukuba zijongwa ngeliso leengcinga zesintu, zonke ezi "ziilahleko."

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba sisebenzisa ingqiqo yokuphumelela, singafumana indlela "yokuphumelela" ngalo lonke ixesha xa sidibana nobunzima.

njenge:

• Ukuwa emsebenzini? Elo lithuba lokuphumla nokuchacha.
• Awufumani mali? Ufumene amava kunye nonxibelelwano.
• Ngaba uwele kumgibe? Uwuphephe omkhulu ngakumbi kamva.

Le ndlela yokucinga inceda abantu bahlale benethemba kwaye baphephe ukungazithembi.

Eyona nto iphambili kwiindlela zokuphumelela: utshintsho lwengqondo

Ingongoma yokuphumelela ikwinguquko yengqondo.

Ingcali yezengqondo uMartin Seligman wacebisa "ingqondo eyakhayo," egxininisa ukuba abantu banokuziphucula ngokutolikwa ngendlela eyakhayo.bonwabileingqiqo (Ulonwabo Lokwenyani, 2002).

Ingqondo yokuphumelela yindlela esebenzayo yokusebenzisa ingqondo eyakhayo. Ifuna ukuba sichaze kwakhona yonke ingxaki njengento "yokuphumelela".

umzekelo:

• Ukugxekwa ngumphathi wakho? Loo nto yingcebiso yasimahla yomntu ngamnye.
• Ngaba lishwa elibi ngabantu? Bangaba ngabafundisi bobomi bakho.
• Ngaba uqondwa kakubi? Oko kuyakunceda uqhawule ubudlelwane obungekho semgangathweni.

Iimeko zokusetyenziswa kwethiyori yokuphumelela

Ubugcisa Bokuphumelela Emsebenzini

Kwinkampani, ukugxekwa kunye noxinzelelo akunakuphepheka. Ukuphumelela kunokukunceda uguqule olu xinzelelo lube yinkuthazo yokukhula.

Umzekelo, ukuba iprojekthi ayiphumeleli, ungathi, "Sifumene amava axabisekileyo kwaye siza kuthenjwa ngakumbi kwixesha elizayo."

Le ndlela yokuziphatha ayigcini nje ngokukugcina unethemba, kodwa ikwakunika ukuqatshelwa liqela lakho.

Ukuphumelela kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu

Udibana nabantu abaxabanayo? Ukufunda ngokuphumelela kukuxelela oku: Ukubathintela kukukhusela, kwaye kukuzikhusela nawe.

Uphando lwezengqondo lubonisa ukuba ukunciphisa ukuvezwa kumandla angalunganga kunokuphucula kakhulu ulonwabo (iJournal of Positive Psychology, 2015).

Ngoko ke, ukuphumelela akupheleli nje ekuzithuthuzeleni, kodwa kukwakho...isayensiUhlengahlengiso lwengqondo.

Ukuphumelela kubomi beemvakalelo

Ngaba uziva ubuhlungu bentliziyo ebutsheni bakho? Impendulo evela kwi "Winning Strategies" ithi: Fumana uthando olutsha ngokukhawuleza. Kuba uqalise ubomi obutsha.

Le ndlela yokucinga inokunceda abantu baphume ngokukhawuleza emthunzini baze baphephe ukuntywiliselwa ziintlungu ixesha elide.

Ixabiso lefilosofi lokuphumelela

Ukuphumelela akusiyo nje isakhono sengqondo, kodwa kukwayifilosofi.

Igxininisa ukuba akukho kusilela kokwenene ebomini, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zoloyiso kuphela.

Le filosofi ifana nengcinga yamaStoyike. AmaStoyike ayekholelwa ukuba nangona iimeko zangaphandle zingalawuleki, indlela umntu acinga ngayo inokulawulwa. Ifilosofi yokuphumelela ithatha olu lawulo lwendlela yokucinga lube qatha kakhulu.

Iingozi kunye nemida yezifundo eziphumeleleyo

Kakade ke, kukwakho neengozi ezibandakanyekileyo ekufundeni indlela yokuphumelela.

Ukusebenzisa kakhulu izinto kunokubangela ukuba abantu bangazinaki iingxaki zokwenyani. Umzekelo, ingcinga yokuzithuthuzela yokuba "ufumene amava" ngelixa ujongene nokulahlekelwa ixesha elide inokukuthintela ekwenzeni uphuculo.

Ngoko ke, ukufunda indlela yokuphumelela kufuneka kudityaniswe nesenzo. Ukuguqulwa kwengqondo linyathelo lokuqala kuphela; ukuphuculwa okusebenzayo kuyafuneka emva koko.

Umbono wam: Ukuphumelela sisixhobo sengqondo.

Nangona ndingamthandi uTrump, kufuneka ndivume ukuba amaqhinga akhe okuphumelela anexabiso elikhethekileyo.

Ikugcina unengqondo "yokuphumelela" kwaye ikuthintela ukuba woyiswe ziingxaki.

Kweli xesha lokungaqiniseki, amaqhinga okuphumelela sisixhobo sengqondo. Asenza sikwazi ukuhlala sinethemba xa sisebunzimeni kwaye sifumane amandla xa siphelelwe lithemba.

Njengoko uNietzsche watshoyo, “Oko kungandibulaliyo kundenza ndibe namandla.” Ukuphumelela yinguqulelo yanamhlanje yalo moya.

Isiphelo: Amandla Okuphumelela

Ixabiso eliphambili leNgcinga yoKuphumelela lilele ekuguquleni yonke ingxaki ibe luloyiso kunye nokusilela konke kube kukukhula.

Akukuko ukubaleka, kodwa malunga nokuhlaziya indlela esicinga ngayo.

Asikuko ukuzikhohlisa, kodwa kukuzixhobisa.

Kuzo zonke iikona zobomi, singasebenzisa iMigaqo yoKuphumelela ukulungisa indlela esicinga ngayo nokuphucula indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngolonwabo.

Ngoko ke, ifilosofi yokuphumelela ayilolawulo lukaTrump kuphela, kodwa yindlela yokucinga enokuqondwa ngumntu wonke oqhelekileyo.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokuphumelela: Akukho midlalo yokulahlekelwa ebomini, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphumelela.

Thabatha inyathelo kwaye usebenzise amaqhinga okuphumelela ebomini bakho, wenze yonke imihla ibe sisahluko sokuphumelela.