Indima yolwimi olucebisayo: malunga neendlela zokuzicebisa kunye namabalana amafutshane

Kubomi bomntu wonke, kuya kubakho ibali lokwenyani elingenakulibaleka.

Oku yiiindaba ezintshaIbali elifutshane lomntu oziphakamisayo ngokwasengqondweni.

Amabali eNgcebiso yeNgcebiso

Xa wayekwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ngobunye ubusika, intsapho yakowabo kwafuneka ithenge amalahle ebusika.

Wakhwela ibhayisekile enamavili amathathu eyedwa ukutsala amalahle, inqwelo egcweleyo, iijini ezingama-1800, waza waqalisa ukutyhala ibhayisekile enamavili amathathu kancinane eyedwa.

Kwakusebusika nje, kwaye nemozulu yayingabandi kakhulu.Ngethutyana nje elingephi, wayesele eyikhulule kaninzi idyasi enemisonto.

Wathi xa eza kufika ekhaya, kwafuneka ehle kwindledlana emxinwa kakhulu, kodwa wavinjwa yibhayisekile enamavili amathathu eneasi eqhekekileyo.

Kuyabonakala ukuba uThixo wamhlazisa ngabom.” Le ndlela, ngenxa yokuba yayikufuphi nequla elinoxinzelelo lwamanzi, indlela yayinomkhenkce, yaye enye inkunkuma eyayixutywe neentyantyambo yayifefa ngabantu abanobubele, nto leyo eyenza ithambeka elikhulu nelincinane.

Wasinyusa isantya sakhe, elungele ukungxama nge-inertia:

• Ixesha lokuqala aliphumelelanga, itrayisekile yatyibilika umva,
• Okwesibini naye akazange aphumelele, waphefumla,
• Waleqa izihlandlo ezithathu zilandelelana woyisakala...

Wahlala phantsi ekhefuzela, kwaye kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba awutsale yedwa, ngoko wagqiba ekubeni alinde umntu odlulayo ukuze amncede.

Malunga nemizuzu eli-10 kamva, umsindisi ekugqibeleni wafika, yayinguTitshala uLi ovela kwiyadi engaphambili.

• "Yiza, ndiza kukunceda." UMnu. uLi wabeka izinto ezandleni zakhe ecaleni, wasonga imikhono yakhe, wavula indlela yakhe yokuma.

Ukubona ukuma kukaTishala uLi, intliziyo yam yonyuka, kwaye amandla am enyuka!

Wathoba intloko yakhe watsala ngamandla ngaphambili, ngelixa uMalume uLi wayemana ekhwaza ngasemva:

• "Inye, zimbini, zintathu, yiza, yiza."

Ngenxa yoko, ibhayisekile enamavili amathathu ekugqibeleni yawuwela ngempumelelo ithambeka.

Walungisa imoto wajika wabulela, wafumanisa ukuba uTishala uLi usekude naye, emjonge ngoncumo.

iimpawu ezifanelekileyo zengqondo

Ebona inkangeleko yakhe ebhidekileyo, uMfundisi uLi wathi ngoncumo:

• "Akufuneki umangaliswe, kuba isandla sam sinesifo samathambo kwaye andinakukwazi ukusebenzisa nayiphi na amandla. Ndivele ndakhwaza nge-cheers ecaleni, kwaye kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba uyitsale le moto!"

UMnu. uLi ewangawangisa izandla zakhe eziqhwayiweyo, ezele yimfundiso echukumisayo efana nemfundiso, kunye namehlo angenalwazi wenkwenkwana encinane, ayesenza owona mfanekiso mhle kwinkumbulo yakhe, owathi walungiswa ebusika xa wayeneminyaka eli-16 ubudala.

• "Njengoko ukholelwa kuwe entliziyweni yakho, unokuba namandla angenasiphelo okunqoba bonke ubunzima kunye nemiqobo."
• "Ukuba ufuna ukugqama kwikamva, kufuneka ube nentembelo engathethekiyo."
• "Uyakhumbula, iintsilelo ezininzi kweli hlabathi azibangelwa kukungakwazi, kodwa ngenxa yokungazithembi."

Kamva, xa kwakudilizwa eso sixeko, wonke umntu wafuduka kuloo ndlu, ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-20 kamva, andazi ukuba unjani uMnu.Li ngoku.Ngaba isifo samathambo sikaMnu.

Ukuba kunokwenzeka, wathi ufuna ngokwenene uMfundisi uLi eze kweyakheIntengiso ye-Wechatbahlali, yenzani eyakheIntengiso yoLuntuMentor, enethemba lomsebenzi wakhe kurhwebo lwe-intanethi kunyeEzorhwebonceda endleleni.

(Ibali elincinci lengcebiso yezengqondo, esi sisiphelo)

Eli bali lincinci lengcebiso elungileyo yengqondo liyamangalisa, nangona kunjaloUbomiIzinto ezincinci, kodwa bonisa izinto ezibalulekileyo zempumelelo ebomini kunye nomsebenzi.

seoucelomngeni kakhulu,uKhuthazo lweWebhuAbaqhubi kufuneka babe nokuzithemba okuqinileyo ukoyisa bonke ubunzima.

zonkeIntengiso ye-Intanethiindlela, akunjalo?

Abantu abaninzi bathi ukuphumelela ukufunda isuphu yenkukhu engenamsebenzi.

Kuba indlela abantu abaninzi abayiqonda ngayo impumelelo idlule kula manqanaba mathathu:

1. Kholwa
2. mathandabuzo
3. Kholwa

Indima yokuzicebisa

Sikholelwa ekufundeni okuyimpumelelo kuba siyayazi loo mfundo iyimpumeleloisayensiIsiseko sethiyori yingcebiso yezengqondo:

• Icebiso lezengqondo: "Ndingoyena ubalaseleyo, ukuba nje umoya unganciphisi, kukho iindlela ezininzi kunobunzima"

Imfihlelo yokuzicebisa okulungileyo

Xa ukwimo embi, qiniseka ukuba ubukele le vidiyo ikhuthazayo "Imfihlo" Umthetho wokutsala umdla ▼

Ebizwa ngokuba yividiyo ye-Tencent, okanye unokujonga kuqala kwimizuzu emi-5, indlela yokubukela inguqulelo epheleleyo ye "Imfihlo"?

1. Khuphela kwaye ufake i- "Tencent Video" APP kwifowuni yakho ephathekayo.
2. Khangela amagama angundoqo kwi-Tencent Video APP: "当你心情不好的时候一定要看看这个励志视频秘密 吸引力法则"

• Emva kokuba uyibukele, ungashiya umyalezo kwaye undixelele iingcinga zakho ^_^

• Imfihlo yimuvi ka-2006 "yokuzinceda".
• Ifilimu ibonisa umbono wokuba wonke umntu unokufumana oko akufunayo ukuba ukholelwa ukuba unako.
• Umbono ophambili wefilimu ngumthetho kaRhonda Byrne wokutsala umdla.
• Ifilimu yakhululwa ngaxeshanye njengenguqulelo yencwadi enegama elifanayo, kwaye le ncwadi igqwesile kuluhlu lweNew York Times.

Abantu abaninzi banokuyazi incwadi ethi "Imfihlo", kodwa ngaba uyazi?

• Inzululwazi emva kwe "Mfihlo" eyenzeka yingcebiso yezengqondo.
• Kukho ingcali yezengqondo enamandla ephantsi eFransi.Incwadi yakhe ngengcebiso yezengqondo idumile eYurophu nase-United States.Ngo-2013, yaphinda yapapashwa izihlandlo ezili-11 eMelika.
• NaseNew York, umbutho okwinqanaba lesizwe wasekwa ukuze ukhumbule ukuphucuka komgangatho uwonke awazisa kubemi baseMelika.

Kwaye thina bantu baseTshayina sihlala sibona oku njengamandla angaqhelekanga kunye nesiphithiphithi ...

Ngaba uyazi ukuba zingaphi izihlandlo le ncwadi iphinde yashicilelwa eFransi?

• Amaxesha angama-150!
• Hayi 15 amaxesha, kodwa 150 amaxesha!

Akunjalo nje ukuba iNtshona isigqithise ngeendlela ezininzi, kufuneka kubekho isizathu.

Enyanisweni, xa umi kumphakamo othile, uya kuwaqonda amandla okholo.

• Inokutshabalalisa yonke into kwaye inokudala yonke into.

Noko ke, ndikholelwa ukuba yonke into ineemeko ezisisiseko, ngokomzekelo, indlu ayinakuthwala amaphupha ngaphandle kokubeka isiseko.

• Eyona nto iqhubekayo kweli hlabathi kukuba ihlala iguquka, kwaye ayikwazi ukuchaza konke oku ngamagama alula.
• Ukuthetha amagama afanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo akufikeleleki kumntu oqhelekileyo.
• Ke ngoko, kulula ukufezekisa into oyifunayo ngomnqweno kunye nesenzo, kunokuba ugqibelele kangakanani.

Amandla kunye nendlela yokuzicebisa ngokwasengqondweni

Indlela encomekayo yengcebiso yezengqondo:

1. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kuphumelela.
2. Ukufunda kulula kum.
3. zithembe.

Kholelwa kuwe, kholelwa kwingomso lakho, kwaye xa uvuka yonke imihla, yithi kuwe:

• Abantu baqala ngeengcamango, iingcamango zizala ithemba;
• Ithemba lizala ukuzithemba, kwaye ukuzithemba kuvelisa amandla;
• Kholelwa ngamandla akho,Unokwenzeka, yonke into inokwenzeka!

Umthetho wokutsala uyasebenza

ukuzicebisa yonke imihlaukucamngca, ngoku kuye kwabonwa ukuba umphumo uyenzeka▼

🔗Uwusebenzisa njani umthetho wokutsala umdla? Ipsychology yothando phakathi kwesini esahlukileyo kunye nemfihlo yokwenza iminqweno yakho ibe yinyaniso