Indlela yokuqinisekisa amakhasimende ukuthi athenge umshwalense?Abadayisi bomshwalense benza umsebenzi omuhle kumakhono ebhizinisi lokuthengisa

Ochwepheshe abaphezulu bokuthengisa umshwalense bakufundisa ukuthi uwenza kanjani umsebenzi omuhle ekuthengisweni

URobert Sucker wayengumthengisi womshuwalense omuhle kakhulu owasungula Inkampani Yomshuwalense Wabaphathi BaseMelika edumile.

Manje, bona ukuthi usebenzisa kahle kangakanani "imibuzo engacacile" ukuze athwebule isizathu sangempela sekhasimende.

Indlela yokuqinisekisa amakhasimende ukuthi athenge umshwalense?

ikhasimende:"Icebo lakho libonakala lingihlaba umxhwele. Nginike ikhadi lebhizinisi. Ngizokufonela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa."

Suk:"Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokungazi kwakho, kodwa ngicela ukubuza, kungani ufuna ukulinda bese ungifonela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa?"

ikhasimende:"Ngoba kumele ngicabangisise ngaphambi kokuthi ngenze isinqumo."

Suk:"Lokhu ukusabela okuvamile, ngakho-ke ungaqhubeka nokuthatha inkululeko yokubuza ukuthi kungani uhlale ucabanga ngakho kusengaphambili?"

ikhasimende:"Ngoba eminyakeni engu-10 edlule kwakukhona umfana owayengidayisela amawindi ewindi lendlu ngase ngimsayinisa ngingacabanganga ngakho. Kwazi bani ukuthi sekuneminyaka engumthombo wezinkinga zami. Uma ngingayicabanga ngeke" ngenze lelo phutha futhi."

Suk:"Ngiyasiqonda isimo sakho. Pho kungani ucabanga ukuthi isipiliyoni esisabekayo sokubhekana nomthengisi wamafasitela we-windbreaker eminyakeni engu-10 edlule kuzokuvimbela ukuthi uqale uhlelo ocabanga ukuthi luwumqondo omuhle eminyakeni engu-10 kusukela manje?"

ikhasimende:"Kungenxa yaleso senzakalo esibuhlungu ukuthi ngibe ngumuntu oqaphile, futhi ngiye ngaba nomkhuba wokuthatha yonke into kancane ukuze ngingenzi isinqumo esingalungile."

Suk:"O, ngiyayiqonda indlela ozizwa ngayo. Ngakho, ngaphandle kwalokho, ingabe sikhona esinye isizathu esenza ungakwazi ukuqala lolu hlelo oluhle namuhla?"

ikhasimende:"Cha, into esemqoka leyo."

Manje, kufanele sazi ukuthi yisiphi isizathu esenza amakhasimende angakwazi ukufaka i-oda ngokushesha?U-Robert Suck wathola noma kunjalo, futhi ekugcineni wayithola inqubomgomo.

Umthengisi omusha womshwalense angenza kanjani kahle ekuthengisweni komshwalense?

1. Qiniseka ukuthi ufunda futhi usebenzise ngekhono indlela "yemibuzo engacacile" uma ufuna ukwenza noma ukwenza ibhizinisi ngempumelelo.
2. Uma ukhuluma namakhasimende, ungavumeli amakhasimende akuhole ngekhala, futhi indlela yokukugwema ilula kakhulu, inqobo nje uma ugxila emazwini abalulekile futhi ubuza imibuzo.
3. Futhi leli gama elingukhiye yilokho okuvezwe yikhasimende kuzaba ezedlule, futhi umbuzo wakho olandelayo ungasuselwa kuwo njengegama elingukhiye.

Asenze lula ingxoxo engenhla.

Bamba amagama angukhiye ukuze uqondise omunye umuntu ukuthi athenge umshwalense

ikhasimende:Ngizokufonela futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.

Suk:Kungani ufuna ukufona futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa?

ikhasimende:Ngifuna ukuphinde ngicabange.

Suk:Kungani kufanele ucabange ngakho?

ikhasimende:Hhayi-ke, yingoba ngihlala ngicabanga ngazo zonke izinqumo engizenzayo.

Suk:Pho kungani kufanele uhlale ucabanga ngakho?

ikhasimende:ngoba,……

Bekufanele ngabe wazi indlela yokusebenzisa amagama "okhiye" ezaba zelinye iqembu ukuze uhole elinye iqembu uze uthole ulwazi olubalulekile olufunayo, akunjalo?

Khumbula, imibuzo engaphenduleki iyindlela ebalulekile nesebenzayo kuyo yonke ingxoxo nekhasimende.

Isifingqo: Ungawakholisa kanjani amakhasimende ukuthi athenge umshwalense?

Ngaphambi kokuthi ngabelane ngalesi sihloko, ingabe uye wasebenzisa le ndlela ukuze uhlale ubuza amakhasimende ukuthi kungani?

Ekuphetheni:

1. Bamba amagama ayisihluthulelo futhi uqhubeke ubuza ukuthi "kungani";
2. Kuze kube yilapho elinye iqembu lisho isizathu sokugcina, ungasho ukuthi: "Ngiyakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi uzizwa kanjani";
3. Ekugcineni wabuza: “Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ingabe sikhona esinye isizathu esenza ungakwazi ukuqala lolu hlelo oluhle namuhla?