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Sanibonani nonke!Namuhla ngizokwabelana okokugcina engigxile kukho kobuchopho - izindaba ezithinta imizwa.
Indaba ethinta inhliziyo
Ngenxa yokuthi wonke umuntu unemizwelo yenjabulo, intukuthelo, usizi nenjabulo, ubuchopho buzosebenzisa imizwa ukuveza ukusekela noma ukuphikisa izinto, ngakho "izindaba ezithinta imizwelo" zingadonsa ukunaka kobuchopho.
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Ungabhekisela kusihloko esithambile sika-Alpha Xiaodan esithi "Kuvele ukuthi kuhlakaniphile bonke bathembele kuye" ebhalwe ngu-@春王lord.
UXiaoming noXiaohong bangabangani abakhulu, nabazali babo nabo bangabangani abakhulu. Laba ababili bahlala emphakathini owodwa. Njengoba isikole singekude, bandawonye lapho beya esikoleni nalapho beya esikoleni.
Muva nje, u-Xiaoming usanda kuthola ukuthi wayengamazi uXiaohong. Lokhu kutholwe enkulumweni kaXiaohong. Kwenzeka kanjani ukuba kungazelelwe abe ngowokuqala ekilasini? Bekuyimi. Le ntombazane eyayingenalwazi yathuka lapho ikhuluma. Ngaqala ukukhokha. ukunaka u-Xiaohong. Njengoba ngabona konke u-Xiaohong akwenzayo, ngabona ukuthi u-Xiaohong uthanda ukukhuluma muva nje, futhi ubencokola ngezwi lakhe langakwesokunxele.
Kwenzakalani?UXiao Ming uyaxakeka.Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ubambe iqhaza ekuqeqeshweni?Akufani nokuthi ah,abazali ezinhlangothini zombili abagqugquzeli ukuthi babafundele ngenkani.Ubuye wambuza ukuthi ubambe iqhaza yini ekuqeqeshweni. ikilasi?UXiaohong uphendule ngokuthi cha...
U-Xiao Ming waba nelukuluku lokwazi nakakhulu, futhi wanquma ukubhekisisa ukuthi kwenzekani ku-Xiaohong. Omunye ngemva komunye, wathola ukuthi u-Xiaohong wayenesikhathi esincane sokudlala ngaphandle kamuva nje. U-Xiao Ming wamamatheka kancane, futhi abantu basebenze kanzima. Akumangalisi.
Ngemva kokucabanga ngakho, kusengalungile. Angikamboni uthisha womndeni kaXiaohong nezihlobo ezintsha. Kubonakala sengathi ngidinga ukuya kwaXiaohong ukuze ngithole...
UXiaoming uthole isizathu sokuya endlini kaXiaohong futhi wangqongqoza emnyango. UXiaohong akazange abingelele njengakuqala, kodwa waphenduka wagijimela ekamelweni lakhe lokulala. UXiaoming akazange akuphishekele. ukuze uvule. Buza imibuzo, amaqanda ePhasika ayaphendula...
U-Xiaoming wabuka iqanda elincane lephasika ngokumangala, futhi u-Xiaohong ngokuziqhenya wamnika eminye imisebenzi: ukucula, ukuxoxa indaba, okuthusayo...
Lapho laba ababili belalele, ubaba kaXiaohong wabuya. Lapho uXiaoming ebuza ngendawo yokuthenga amaqanda, ubaba kaXiaohong wathi: "Ngikhona.I-WechatUmdwebi wemidiya, lo mkhiqizo ungomunye wemikhiqizo yethu, imikhiqizo yethu eminingi yekhwalithi ephezulu, njengezicathulo zokubhucunga ngaphansi kwezinyawo zami nazo zikhiqizwa yithi, unomphumela ofanayo ne-massage pedicure...
Okuphansi kwe-puzzle kwembulwa, futhi u-Xiao Ming wanquma ukuvumela abazali bakhe ukuba bahlanganyele ku-Wechat Media, ukuze angagcini nje ngokuthola ingane yakhe ayithandayo, kodwa futhi avumele abazali bakhe ukuba bajabulele imikhiqizo emihle, njengezicathulo zokubhucunga, nokunye. ...
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Kungani?Ngoba ihlala isikhathi eside! "
Ukuhlaziya: Umkhiqizo ukude nokugxilwa kobuchopho bomsebenzisi, futhi izindaba ezithinta imizwa zingasetshenziswa ukunciphisa ibanga ukusuka ekugxilweni kobuchopho.
XNUMX. Ukuhlaziywa kokuziphatha kokugxila kwengqondo
Endabeni yezikhukhula zolwazi, ulwazi ubuchopho obungalucubungula lulinganiselwe, futhi isizathu esibalulekile esingaheha ukunaka kobuchopho empeleni "i-hippocampus" ebuchosheni ukuze kuhlungwe ulwazi olungabalulekile.
Yiluphi ulwazi olungahlolwa yi-hippocampus bese lugxila ebuchosheni?
"Kumayelana nami":
- (1) Lokho abanye abantu abakukhathalelayo: imicimbi edumile, imikhiqizo eyaziwayo.
- (2) Ukuhlotshaniswa nomsebenzi wamanje: nciphisa ukungathandwa kwezikhangiso, hlaziya lokho umsebenzisi akwenzayo njengamanje?
- (3) Izithakazelo: ubuhle, ubulili (imvelo yokuzala), ukudla, ama-anecdotes, izindlela zokuphumelela...
- (4) Amaphuzu obuhlungu omsebenzisi ahlobene: izinkinga (amaphuzu obuhlungu) ahlangabezane nawo.
- (5) Izindaba ezithinta imizwa: imizwa, ukuxoxa indaba.
Ukubaluleka kokuqhathanisa
Kungani ngifingqa oku-5 okukhathazayo kwengqondo?
Njengoba ubuchopho buthambekele ekubeni ndikindiki ezintweni ezingaguquleki, idizayini yekhophi yesilingo yokukhangisa idinga ukushintshwa, futhi kuyadingeka ukushintsha phakathi kwezinhlobo ezi-5 ezihlukene "zokugxila kwengqondo" kanye "nokugqama" ukuze wenze umphumela ophambene.
Izinto ezinhlanu ezikhathazayo zobuchopho engizifingqa zigcizelela ukubaluleka kokuqhathanisa.
Ngenxa yokuthi izinto ezingahambi, azishintshi futhi azikho umehluko onzima ukuheha ukunaka kobuchopho, kodwa izinto ezishintshayo nezinyakazayo zizoheha ukunaka kobuchopho.
Ngakho-ke, endabeni yokwanda kokuqukethwe kwe-homogenized, uma ufuna ukugqama futhi udonse ukunaka kobuchopho, kufanele ube nokuphambene.
(Qhathanisa isifinyezo sokuqhathanisa, sicela ubheke imephu yengqondo ngezansi)
Isizathu sokufingqa nokwabelana ngokukhathazeka kwengqondo empeleni ukusiza thina-media kanye namabhizinisi amancane enze umsebenzi omuhle wokuklama izilingo.
Nokho, isisekelo sokuklama isilingo siwukufunda ukubona imvelo yomuntu ngokucacile.Uma ufuna ukubona imvelo yomuntu ngokucacile, kufanele uhlaziye ukuziphatha kobuchopho, futhi ekugcineni wenze isiphetho.
U-Chen Weiliangisifinyezo
Ukwakha isilingo, imibandela emibili kufanele ihlangatshezwe:
- 1. Kumayelana nami - ukugxila kobuchopho.
- 2. Qhathanisa - ukushintsha ukugxila kobuchopho.
Izinhlobo ezi-5 zokugxila kobuchopho + umehluko, ngiqedile ukwabelana namuhla, angazi ukuthi wonke umuntu ucabangani?
Uma unemibuzo noma eminye imibono, ngicela ungishiyele umlayezo ^_^
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