Ungazidonseli phansi ngenxa yabantu abangafaneleki abantu abahlakaniphile bayazi ukuthi bayeka kanjani ukulahlekelwa ngesikhathi!

Ingabe usamosha isikhathi namandla akho kubantu abangafaneleki? Abantu abahlakaniphile bayakwazi ukumisa ukulahlekelwa kusenesikhathi futhi baqhelelane nabantu ababachithayo! Lesi sihloko sikufundisa ukuthi ungababona kanjani "abantu ababi", ukuhoxa ngokushesha kubo, ugweme ukukhathala okungokomzwelo, futhi wenze ukuphila kwakho kube lula futhi kukhululeke kakhudlwana. Kuphela ngokufunda ukudedela ungakwazi ukufeza ukuzikhulisa!

Wake wahlangana nomuntu okwathi, nakuba kusobala ukuthi inkinga yakhe, wagcina ekucasule kakhulu waze wehluleka nokulala?

Ungase ungaqondwa kahle, ucasulwe, usetshenziswe, noma uze ubekwe icala ngaphandle kwesizathu. Uyafuna ukuchaza, ukuphikisa, ukufuna ubulungisa, kodwa lapho uzabalaza kakhulu, ukhathala nakakhulu, futhi ungase udonswe ezingeni elifanayo ngelinye iqembu futhi ube ngumuntu omzonda kakhulu.

Ungakhohliswa.

Abanye abantu abasifanele nhlobo isikhathi sakho, ingasaphathwa eyokukhokhela amazwi nezenzo zabo.

Azifanele ukuthikameza isimo sakho sengqondo

ImpiloEmhlabeni, kuyohlale kukhona abantu abambalwa abathanda ukuthola amaphutha, abathanda ukucindezela, nokungathandi abanye.

Kungenzeka ukuthi bangabazakwenu eduze kwakho, ohlale ebhuqa futhi ongakwazi ukukumela wenza kahle.
Kungaba iqhawe lekhibhodi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana elisusa ukungezwani nokusabalalisa amandla angemuhle.
Kungase futhi kube umngane ozicabangela yena yedwa okufunayo kuphela lapho ekudinga.

Ukuba khona kwazo akusho ukuthi kufanele uthonywe yizo.

Lapho uthukuthele, udabukile,iphitheneKodwa khumbula, ukuhlola kwabo akukushintshi ukubaluleka kwakho kwangempela. Ububi babo abukwazi ukunquma isimo sakho sengqondo.

Akanalo ilungelo lokungithonya, akakufanele.

Lapho uthandela ngokwengeziwe, kulapho ulahlekelwa khona inani

Wake waba nomzuzu onjalo?

Ngolunye usuku, othile washo okuthile okungenamusa kuwe, futhi awukwazanga ukukuyeka, wawulokhu ucabanga ngakho kaninginingi, futhi waze waphindaphinda engqondweni yakho izikhathi ezingenakubalwa "ukuthi ungaphendula kanjani", okwakwenza wacasuka futhi ungaphumuli.

Kodwa wake wacabanga——Uma ufaka amandla engeziwe ekwenzeni kube sína, maningi amathuba okuba baphumelele?

Abanye abantu bathembele ekudaleni izingxabano ukuze benze ukuba khona kwabo kuzwakale Lapho uphikisana kakhulu nabo, bajabula kakhulu.

Abanandaba nokucabanga, banendaba nemizwa yabo kuphela. Lapho ubonisana nabo, kufana nokudlalela inkomo ilute, futhi uzogcina uchithe isikhathi sakho.

Abantu abahlakaniphile ngeke bamoshe isikhathi ezimpini ezingenangqondo ezinjalo Bazi ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuzilwela ukuthi -.Ungaphenduli, ungakhathazeki, ungachithi umzuzwana kubantu abangabafanele.

Ungavumeli abantu abangabalulekile bathinte isimo sakho

Ulapha ukuze uphile impilo yakho, hhayi ukujabulisa wonke umuntu.

Umhlaba mkhulu kakhulu, futhi baningi abantu abafanelwe ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa kwakho Kungani uchitha isikhathi sakho kulabo abakuqeda amandla?

Kufanele ugxile kulokho okubaluleke ngempela, kunokunaka amazwi angasho lutho.

Uma uqala ukungabakhathaleli labo abangafaneleki, uzothola ukuthi umhlaba uyathula ngokuphazima kweso futhi ingqondo yakho ikhululeke kakhudlwana.

Funda ukubavimba futhi ungabavumeli balawule impilo yakho

Ungakugwema kanjani ukuthintwa?

• Prakthiza Ukuziba —— Akuwona wonke umuntu ofanele impendulo yakho, ukubavimba kulula njengokuvimba ugaxekile.
• Gxila kubantu nasezintweni ezibalulekile —— Isikhathi namandla akho kulinganiselwe, kungani ungakuchithi kubantu okubafanele?
• Zithuthukise —— Uma uba namandla futhi uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe, uzothola ukuthi labo bantu ababi ngeke besakwazi ukukuthinta nhlobo.

Kukhona isisho esithi:"Ungakunaki ukukhonkotha kwenja, ungaphikisani namazwi abantu."

Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uphile impilo yakho kahle.

Isiphetho: Akukho ukulunga okungaka emhlabeni, kuphela ukuhwebelana

Abanye abantu bayabuza: "Kungani abantu abalungile behlale belimala? Kungani abantu ababi bephumelela njalo?"

Ngoba umhlaba awulungile, kodwa ungakhetha inkundla yakho yempi.

Ungakhetha ukubanjiswana nabo impilo yakho yonke, noma ungakhetha ukuhamba ngokukhululeka futhi ugxile ekukhuleni kwakho.

Ukudedela abantu abangafaneleki kuyinhlonipho enkulu kuwena.

Esikhundleni sokuchitha isikhathi kubantu ababi nasezintweni ezimbi, kungcono ukuchitha isikhathi sakho ezintweni ezibalulekile futhi ube umuntu ongcono.

Isikhathi sakho sibalulekile, ungasichithi kubantu abangasifanele.