Tuhinga Tuhinga
I kōrero māua ki tētahi hoa i puta i te kura i ngā tau e rua, e toru rānei ki muri i te mutunga wiki, ā, i kōrero māua mō te kupu "tālena".
I kōrero ia i tētahi mea i miharo ai ahau mō ētahi hēkona.
I mea ia, "Ki taku whakaaro kāore ōku pūkenga."
He ahua noa iho taua rerenga kōrero, tika? Engari mō tētahi take, ka pakū te manawa o tōku ngākau.
Nā te mea kua maha ngā wā kua pā mai taua āhua ki ahau.
Tērā pea ka mea ētahi, "He aha te take nui? He tokomaha te hunga kāore i te tino pūkenga. Ehara koe i te tangata mohio, nō reira he aha te mea hei manukanuka ?"
Engari ko te mea e whakararuraru ana i ahau, ehara i te whakatau "kāore ōku pūkenga".
Ko tāku e raru nei, ko ngā paerewa e whakamahia ana e tātou hei tautuhi i te taranata.
Kua hē katoa tā tātou mārama ki te whakamāramatanga o te tikanga o te taranata.
Whakaarohia marietia. He aha ngā mea kua rongohia e tātou mō te taranata mai i te tamarikitanga ki te pakeketanga?
He pūkenga te matatau ki te pāngarau. He pūkenga te matatau ki te tuhi. He pūkenga te pai ki te waiata.
He aha ngā āhuatanga ōrite o ēnei kōrero?
Ko te mea nui ko te wāhi e pai ake ai koe i ētahi atu.
Ko te mea nui ko tō taumata pūkenga, e āhei ai koe ki te hipa i te taumata toharite i roto i tētahi mara.
Engari ko te raruraru, nā te mea he tangata noa koe, me pēhea e taea ai e koe te pai ake i ētahi atu i ngā mea katoa?
Whakaarohia e koe, he aha ngā mea kei a koe e tino wehewehe ai koe i te nuinga o te iwi?
E taea ana, engari he iti te tūponotanga.
Tērā pea tētahi, e rua rānei ngā āhuatanga e pai ake ai koe i te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe, engari he iti noa iho.
Kāore rawa i te kiia he "tālena".
Ehara te taranata i te mea kia pai ake i ētahi atu, engari ko te mahi i ngā mea me te kore e ngenge.
Koinei te wāhanga tino māharahara.
Ka tautuhia e mātou te taranata ko te "kia pai ake i ētahi atu," kātahi ka whakamahia tēnei paerewa hei tono i ngā mea mai i ia tangata noa.
He aha te hua?
Nā reira, ko te nuinga o te iwi, puta noa i ō rātou oranga, e whakaaro ana kāore he taranata o rātou.
I whakaaro rātou katoa he momo tāngata rātou "he pai ngā mea katoa, engari kāore i te tino pai i tetahi mea".
I whakaaro katoa rātou koinei te āhua o ō rātou oranga.
Ki te pono, he tino whakamomori tēnei kare ā-roto.
I kite ahau i tētahi kōrero tino whakamere i runga ipurangi i ētahi rā kua pahure.
Ko te mea nui, ehara i te mea mā te rapu i "te mea e pai ake ai ahau i ētahi atu" te huarahi e kitea ai e te tangata noa ō rātou pūkenga.
Engari, rapua ngā mea "kāore e puta he utu tāpiri ina mahia e au."
Whakaarohia tēnei rerenga kōrero kia āta whakaarohia.
He aha te tikanga o te kore e puta he whakapaunga tāpiri?
Ko te tikanga, kāore koe e hiahia ki te akiaki i a koe anō ina mahi koe i tēnei.
Kāore he take e whakawhirinaki ai ki te kaha o te ngākau ki te u tonu.
Kāore he take e kī tonu ai koe ki a koe anō, "Kia manawanui, kia manawanui."
I mahia e koe i runga i te āhua maori.
Pērā i te kai me te inu, kāore he kare o te pakanga.
He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te taranata me te hiahia?
Tērā pea ētahi e kī, ehara i te mea he "pānga" noa iho tēnei?
Kāore rāua i te tino ōrite.
He mea e pai ana koe ki te mahi i te hiahia, engari ki te pai koe ki tētahi mea, ehara i te mea kāore koe e whakapau kaha ki te mahi.
Ahakoa te pai ki a koe te tākaro i ngā kēmu ataata, ka ngenge koe i muri i te tākaro mō te ahiahi katoa.
Tērā pea ka pai ki a koe te mātaki kiriata, engari ka hoha koe ki te mātaki i ngā kiriata e toru i te karapīpiti.
Engari ko te taha "kore-whakapau" o te taranata he taahiraa nui atu i te pāngarau anake.
Arā, ki te mahi koe i tētahi mea, ehara i te mea ka pai noa iho ki a koe, engari ka marino katoa tō hinengaro.
Kāore koe e ngenge.
Ahakoa kua oti i a koe, tera pea ka pai ake tō wairua.
E hiahia ana ahau ki te haere tonu.
Me hoatu e au he tauira ki a koe, ā, ka mārama koe.
He hoa tōku e pai ana ki te whakarite i ngā mea.
Ehara i te momo whakapaipai ā-tinana; engari he pai noa iho ki a ia te whakarite i ngā mea paru kia ma.
E kite ana ētahi he mahi uaua tēnei, engari ki a ia he huarahi tēnei hei whakamama i te ahotea.
E hawhe haora te roa o te whakarite i tētahi kākahu mō ētahi atu, engari e oti ana i a ia i roto i ngā meneti tekau, ā, e hiahia tonu ana ia ki ētahi atu.
Ki te tono koe i a ia kia tuhi i tētahi tuhinga e 5000 kupu te roa, ka taea e ia te noho ki reira me te mamae mō ngā haora e toru.
Engari ki te tono koe ki a ia kia whakapai i tētahi rūma e tino paru ana, ka oti i a ia i roto i ngā haora e rua, ā, ka hou ake tōna wairua.
Koira te taranata.
Ehara i te mea he pai ake ia i te katoa ki te whakarite, engari kāore ia e whakapau kaha ana i a ia e mahi ana i tēnei.
E toru ngā pātai hei āwhina i a koe ki te kimi i tō pūkenga
Whakaarohia, kei reira tetahi mea e meinga ai koe kia pēnei te āhua?
Tērā pea ētahi o koutou e mea ana, "Kāo, e ngenge ana ahau ahakoa taku mahi."
Me pātai atu ahau ki a koe mai i tētahi atu koki.
He aha tētahi mea e kitea ana e koe he māmā ake te piri atu ki a rātou i ētahi atu?
Kāore koe e hiahia ki te akiaki i a koe anō; ka tupu noa iho.
Tērā pea ka mutu te mahi a ētahi i muri i ngā rā e toru, engari kua toru marama koe e mahi ana i tēnā, kāore koe i te mōhio.
Tērā pea he tino hoha, he tino ngenge hoki tēnei ki ētahi atu, engari ki a koe he tino pārekareka.
Koinei pea te wāhi e takoto ai tō pūmanawa.
Ehara i te mea ko ngā kaha katoa ko ngā huarahi e ngāwari ana ki te whai.
Whakaarohia, he aha tāu e mahi ai i muri i tō wehenga atu i te mahi i ia rā?
He aha tāu e mahi ai ina kore koe e mahi i ngā mutunga wiki?
I a koe e panuku ana i tō waea pūkoro, he aha ngā ihirangi ka roa ake tō mātakitaki?
Ki te hono koe i ēnei pūwāhi, ka taea e koe te kite i tētahi whakarāpopototanga.
Ehara i te mea he pūkenga whakamiharo, ehara hoki i te kōrero nui "E hiahia ana ahau ki te huri i te ao".
Koinei te mea e māmā ake ana ki a koe te mahi, ā, e māmā ake ana hoki ki a koe te piri atu ki tēnā i tā ētahi atu.
Kimihia, kātahi ka mahi.
He maamaa noa.
Ehara te uara o te taranata i te mea ka taea e ia te whakarato kai ki te tēpu.
E mōhio ana ahau ka mea pea ētahi o koutou, "Ā, me pēhea rā mēnā ka kitea e tātou? Ehara i te mea ka taea e tātou te whakatakoto kai ki runga i te tēpu."
He tino whaitake tēnei whakaaro.
E tino mārama ana ahau.
Ehara koe i te kaitoi; kāore koe e hiahia ki te mahi peita hei oranga mōu. Ehara koe i te kaihōtaka; kāore koe e hiahia ki te mahi waehere hei oranga mōu. He kaimahi tari noa iho koe, e mahi ana i ngā mahi noa i ia rā, i ia rā. He aha te pai o te kimi i tētahi pūkenga?
Engari ko tāku e hiahia ana ki te kī, ehara te uara o te taranata i te mea ka taea e ia te whakarato kai ki te tēpu.
Ko te uara o te taranata kei roto i te meka ka taea e koe te kimi turanga mō te "noho ko koe anō".
Kāore koe e hiahia ki te mahi moni mai i tēnā, kāore hoki koe e hiahia kia rongonui koe māna.
Ko tāu noa e hiahia ana kia mōhio, kotahi te mea o tēnei ao ka taea e koe te mahi me te kore e ngenge.
Mā te mōhio noa ki tēnei ka nui hei whakamarie i a koe i ngā pō maha e pōuri ana koe "He aha taku e mahi nei?"
Kia mōhio koe ki a koe anō, te pātai tawhito rawa atu, te pātai tino taketake hoki.
E toru ngā tuhituhinga kua whakairohia ki te kūaha o te Temepara Kariki tawhito o Delphi.
Ko te kōrero rongonui i roto i a rātou ko, "Kia mōhio koe ki a koe anō."
I ngā mano tau ki muri kua whakaaroaro kē te iwi mō tēnei mea.
I ēnei rā, kei te mau tonu tātou i te whakamāramatanga "ko te taranata he mea kia pai ake i ētahi atu".
Ko te tikanga, ko te kimi i tō pūmanawa he mārama ki tētahi wāhanga o koe.
Engari i te kimi i tētahi paearu o waho, titiro ki roto ka kite ko tēhea mahi ka mahia e koe ina noho marino koe.
Kāore he take e whakaari ai.
He mea i tupu noa mai i te taiao.
Me pēhea te kimi i tō pūmanawa? Anei ngā tohutohu matua mō te kimi i tō pūmanawa.
E ai ki te katoa he mea nui te kimi i tōu ake taranata, engari ki te tangata noa, ehara te taranata i te mea e pai ake ai koe i ētahi atu.
He tangata noa iho koe, nō reira, kāore pea koe e whakawhanake i tētahi kaha e pai ake ana i tō te tangata noa.
Ki te iwi noa, ko te kimi i ō rātou pūkenga he mea nui ki te kimi:
- Ka mahi koe i tētahi mea
- Kāore he utu tāpiri e pā ki a koe.
- He nui ake te tūponotanga ka u tonu koe i ētahi atu.
Koinei pea te wāhi e takoto ai ō pūkenga, ehara i te mea ko ō kaha katoa. Anei te tohutohu pono mō te kimi i tō pūkenga.
He pono, kāore au i te tino mōhio mēnā ka whai hua tēnei tuhinga ki tētahi.
Nā te mea kei te tūhura tonu ahau i a au anō, me te pātai tonu ki a au anō he aha ngā mea e pai ana ahau ki te mahi, me te aha hoki ngā mea e tika ana mōku.
Engari kotahi te mea e tino mārama haere ana ahau ko tēnei:
He mea e kore e kitea e koe te taranata; ka taea e koe te rongo.
Kāore koe e hiahia ki te mahi aromatawai, ki te pātai rānei ki ngā tāngata tekau, "Ki tāu whakaaro he aha taku pūkenga?"
Me hoki noa koe ki te pātai māmā rawa: He aha tāu e mahi ai kāore e hoha ai koe?
Kātahi ka meatia.
He maamaa noa.
Ko tāku tumanako ka whai hua ki a koe te tuhinga "Me pēhea te kimi a te iwi noa i ō rātou ake pūkenga? Mā tēnei huinga rautaki hou koe e āwhina ki te whakatau tika i ō kaha matua," i tohaina ki te blog a Chen Weiliang ( https://www.chenweiliang.com/ ).
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