Uhla lwemibhalo ye-athikili
Indlela yokubona abantu abangathembekile ngesikhathi esifushane?
Eminyakeni edlule, ngenze imali encane kwezamabhizinisi.
Ngike ngabhekana nobuhlungu futhi ngahlushwa abantu abaningi abangathembekile.
Manje finyeza okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambilini nezifundo ukukusiza ukuthi wahlulele ukuthi umuntu unokwethenjelwa yini ngesikhathi esifushane?
Le ndlela ingeyokufundisa indlela yokwahlulela kusaqala, ngisho nalapho niqala ukubonana, ngoba kungase kuphuze kakhulu ukukhokha imali yokufunda ngaleso sikhathi.
Isifinyezo esilandelayo kanye nokuhlaziywa kwendlela yokugwema ukukhwabanisa kungaba usizo kuwe:
Ingabe uzakwethu usesikhathini sama-aphoyintimenti?
Ukubambisana kumayelana nomoya wenkontileka.
Uma umuntu engakwazi ngisho nokwenza izinto eziyisisekelo zokugcina isikhathi, lokho kungasho nje ukuthi akathembekile noma akakwazisi, ngakho asikho isidingo sokubambisana.
Bheka umlando wozakwethu nolwazi lwangaphambilini
Ungabona kanjani ukuthi umlingani webhizinisi uthembekile?
Ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngokubambisana kwebhizinisi phakathi kwalezi zinhlangothi zombili, ungambuza ukuthi wenzeni phambilini nokuthi ukhona yini umphumela?
Uma kungekho lutho oluhamba kahle kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kwangaphambili, ngokuvamile usola inkinga kwabanye, ngokuvamile abangathembekile.
Ungalindeli ukuthi ahluleke ukubambisana nabanye, kodwa angaphumelela yini nawe?
Buza imininingwane, bheka emehlweni
Lapho umuntu ezwakalisa okuthile, ungacela imininingwane, lapho umbuzo unemininingwane eminingi, ungcono.
Khona-ke bheka emehlweni akhe, amadoda noma abesifazane abangathembekile bangakhuluma kakhulu lapho beqhosha, kodwa lapho bebuzwa ngemininingwane, ngokuvamile banamehlo aguquguqukayo kanye nenkulumo engavumelani.
Ingabe inkulumo iphelele?
Umuntu ongathembekile uvame ukukhuluma ngokukhululeka.Angakwazi ukumbambatha isifuba asho okuthile, ngoba akakaze enze lutho futhi ucabanga ukuthi yonke into ilula kakhulu.
Izinto ezenziwe ngabantu abathembekile, bazokhuluma kakhulu ngezimfuneko, ubungozi, ezinye izindlela, njll.
Kufanele siqaphe futhi siqaphele ikakhulukazi labo "abaqinisekisa izifuba zabo" futhi bakhulume ngokwehlukana kakhulu.
Sicela ukhumbule: konke ukwethembeka kuyinkohliso, futhi zonke izithembiso neziqinisekiso zingamanga.
Nsuku zonke lapho uvuka, hlabelela le misho emithathu elandelayo:
- Ungalokothi uxegise ukuqapha kwakho, uzokhohliswa uma uxegisa ukuqapha kwakho, futhi kufanele uxwaye ukubhuqa lapho othile ekhuluma.
- Bonke abanihloniphayo nabakwesabisayo banamanga, inhloso yazo zonke izithembiso neziqinisekiso eziqotho wukwenza abantu bakhohliswe.
- Ungalwi izimpi ezingaqinisekile, qaphela izingibe zoju.
Ngethemba ukuthi isihloko esithi "Ungababona Kanjani Abantu Abangethembekile? Amasu Okwahlulela Ukuthi Abalingani Bebhizinisi Noma Abafana Bathembekile," esabiwe kubhulogi likaChen Weiliang ( https://www.chenweiliang.com/ ), sizokusiza.
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