Indlela yokwakha isangqa sakho sabahlobo njengeshishini elincinci kwaye ube nomtsalane?

Bangaphi abahlobo umntu anabo ebomini bakhe?Ingaba inkulu kangakanani isangqa sakho sentlalontle?

I-WeChat idume kakhulu, kuba isangqa sabahlobo kunye ne-WeChat zihlobene ngokusondeleyo.

Nangona abanyeWechatUndoqo kukuthengiswa kwephiramidi (ukuthengisa okwahlukileyo), kodwa ngenxa yokuba i-WeChat idumile, abahlobo abaninzi kumashishini emveli abashiyekanga ngasemva.Intengiso ye-WechatYiba lishishini elincinci, haha!

Kule mihlaChen WeiliangMakhe ndithethe nawe malunga nendlela yokwakha isangqa esikumgangatho ophezulu wabahlobo kwaye usebenzise "amaqhina abuthathaka" obudlelwane phakathi kwabantu?

Wonke umntu ngoku unesangqa esikhulu kunangaphambili.

Phantse wonke umntu endimaziyo unamakhulu amawaka abantu kwincwadi yabo yeedilesi ye-WeChat, kwaye nabambalwa banezazisi ezininzi ze-WeChat kunye namashumi amawaka abahlobo.

abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho lwakho,Intengiso ye-IntanethiAbafundi ofunda nabo kwisikolo seshishini, abantu ababelana ngezinto ozonwabisa ngazo, nabo balunxibelelwano olomeleleyo.

Ngokusekelwe kumava adlulileyo, abantu bahlala becinga ukuba unxibelelwano oluqinileyo lolona lulungileyo kwaye lusebenza kakhulu.

Ngokungaziwa ngabantu abaninzi, ukusebenzisa unxibelelwano olubuthathaka kunokudibanisa inethiwekhi enkulu kwaye kukunike iziphumo ezingalindelekanga.

Ukufumana umsebenzi kuxhomekeke kubudlelwane

Unjingalwazi waseStanford osebenza kwiidolophu zaseBoston ngeminyaka yoo-70s, iingcali, abaphathi, kunye nabaphathi bawufumana njani umsebenzi?

Waqesha abantu abangama-282 waza wakhetha i-100 kudliwano-ndlebe lobuso ngobuso:

• Wafumanisa ukuba bafaka izicelo kumajelo asemthethweni, anjengokubukela izibhengezo zentengiso kunye nokuqhubeka nomsebenzi, ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha.
• Abantu abangama-100 kwi-54 baye bafumana umsebenzi ngoqhagamshelwano lobuqu.

Uzibhala njani ukuze ufumane ingqwalasela ye-HR xa ujijisana nengqondo yakho kwaye uxakene ne-CV yakho?Ngaphezu kwesiqingatha semisebenzi iye yathathwa ngabantu abanxibelelana nabo.

Ulwalamano olusebenza ngokwenene asilolwalamano oluqinileyo, oluhlala luchukumisa phakathi kwabahlobo kunye nosapho, kodwa lubuthathaka.Kuphela ngamaqhina abuthathaka anokusixelela into esingayaziyo.

ngobaFacebookI-WeChat eyasungulwa nguMark Zuckerberg kunye noZhang Xiaolong iphumelele kangaka?

Oku kungenxa yokuba benza izixhobo ezinamandla ezisivumela ukuba siphumeze unxibelelwano olubuthathaka ngokulula.

'Unxibelelwano olubuthathaka' ludlala indima engalindelekanga

Izangqa ezahlukeneyo zibonelela ngokubizwa ngokuba "ngamaqhina abuthathaka" akuvumela ukuba ufikelele kubantu abohlukeneyo.

Olu nxibelelwano luxabiseke kakhulu kuba lunokubonelela ngolwazi olutsha olufunayo, yiyo loo nto uluntu oluninzi luvela ngoku kwi-WeChat.

Abantu abaninzi benza abahlobo, okanye xa bedibana nabantu, bongeza i-WeChat.

• Abayazi indlela enye yonxibelelwano lwe-utilitarian kwaye kunzima ukufumana ukuthembana.
• Ungayicima okanye uyithintele nokuba omnye umntu uyakungeza kwakhona.

Eyona ndlela ilula yokwenza isangqa sabahlobo

• Yabelana ngezona zixabisekileyo kwiwebhuuKhuthazo lweWebhuulwazi,
• Kwi-Weibo, Zhihu kunye ne-Moments, yabelana ngokutshaEzorhweboulwazi kunye nolwazi,
• Ukunceda abanye nge-Intanethi kukuvumela ukuba usebenze kwisangqa sabahlobo kwaye ufumane ingqalelo yobuhlobo.

Uqhagamshelo olubuthathaka amabali empumelelo

Masithathe umzekelo:

Unjingalwazi uqaqanjelwa ngumqala kwaye ukhohlela ixesha elide...

Ukubona iklinikhi yeengcali akuncedi...

Xa wayesiya kwindawo yokuhlamba impahla, umnikazi wendawo yokuhlamba wayeyikhathalele imeko yakhe.

Akazange amnike nje ivumba elimnandi lomqala webergamot, kodwa wancomela nogqirha owayekhe wayibona ibronchitis, isalamane sakhe.

Emva kweveki ndibonane nogqirha ndasela amayeza ndaphila.

Kukho ikhonkco elibuthathaka eliqhelekileyo phakathi kukanjingalwazi kunye nomhlambi wempahla, kodwa loo qhina libuthathaka limnceda ukuba athomalalise iintlungu nokubandezeleka, ngelixa limenza azive engumntu.

Emva koko, unjingalwazi wanika iingcebiso ezininzi zoshishino kumnini omncinci wendawo yokuhlamba iimpahla waza wamnceda ukuba ajoyine ishishini lokuhlamba impahla kwi-Intanethi, eyandisa umvuzo wakhe amaxesha amaninzi.

Indlela yokwandisa ukuthembela kwisangqa sabahlobo?

Ukuze sizuze intembeko kumaqhina abuthathaka, okanye ukuguqula amaqhina abuthathaka abe ngawomelele, kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo engakumbi kubantu nakwizinto ezisingqongileyo:

• Ukukhathalela abanye, ukuncoma abahlobo bakho xa bephumelele kwayebonwabilenini.
• Thumela ubuso obunoncumo kwaye ufumane indlela yokumnceda xa esengxakini.
• Ubhale kwakhona inqaku elibhalwe ngumhlobo wakhe, wavotela ukhuphiswano lomzobo womntwana wakhe, nokunye.

Ezi nzame zikuvumela ukuba uphucule ngcono ukuthembela konxibelelwano olubuthathaka.

Indlela yokwenza isangqa esikhangayo sabahlobo?

1)UbomiGuqula

• Rekhoda izinto ezinomdla kunye nezonwabileyo ebomini bokwenyani.
• Iirekhodi zentengiselwano, amabali empumelelo.
• Iirekhodi zengxelo yabathengi.

2) Umahluko

• Yenza umxholo owodwa.
• Bonisa ukuba ungowesibini.
• Ukwabelana nawe kuphela kwenzuzo.

3) Ukubalisa amabali

• Xelela ibali eliyinyani, musa ukuxoka.Kungenjalo, abahlobo bakho baya kufumanisa ukuba uyaqhatha, yaye uya kuphelelwa kukuthemba.

4) Imfihlelo

• Xa uthatha imifanekiso, unokuthatha imifanekiso ecaleni okanye kuphela kwi-engile ethile, eyenza abantu bazive ngathi babambe i-pipa enesiqingatha-egqunywe.

5) uzive ulungile

• Ukuzijonga umxholo weMoments, ukuba uyathanda ukubukela iiMoments zakho, amava omsebenzisi alungile;
• Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba uyacekiswa ngumxholo wesangqa sakho sabahlobo, abanye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kucekiswa.