Indlela yokukhupha ngokukhawuleza ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi kwengqondo kunye nokuxhalaba? Iindlela ezisebenzayo zokufundisa indlela yokuphumla!

Ngaba ufuna ukukrazula ukudinwa kwengqondo kunye nokuxhalaba ngokukhawuleza? Eli nqaku labelana nawe ngeendlela ezilula nezisebenzayo zokusombulula ngokulula iimvakalelo ezingalunganga, ubuyise uxolo lwangaphakathi, kwaye uqale ubomi obuhle.Ubomi！

Ubomi bufana nephenyane elivuthuzayo Abanye abantu bafuna ukumisa izibuko, kodwa bafumanisa ukuba indlela eya phambili ibhidekile, ngoxa abanye befunde ukudanisa nomoya namaza. Ezi zimo zengqondo zimbini zichaza indlela esiziva ngayo kuhambo lwezorhwebo kunye nokuba singahamba kude kangakanani na ekugqibeleni ukuya kwelinye icala.

Ingqondo yosomashishini, ngakumbi ingqondo yokuphepha ukuxhalaba kunye nokungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, ihlala ingahoywa "isikhali esingabonakaliyo". Emva koko, sihlalutya kwii-angles ezininzi eziphambili indlela yokuhlakulela le ngqondo ukuze oosomashishini bangabikho kude kuphela, kodwa baphile ngokulula.

Ixhala livela kumnqweno wokulawula, kwaye ukwamkela ukungaqiniseki liyeza

Kutheni sixhalabile? Ukuyibeka ngokucacileyo, kukoyika ukuphulukana nolawulo.
Kwinkqubo yokuqalisa ishishini, yonke inkalo yemarike, abathengi, kunye neqela lizele kukungaqiniseki. Uninzi lwabantu lufuna "ukulawula ngokugqibeleleyo" kwaye luphele kwimeko yokudinwa.

Ucinga ntoni usomashishini? Njengomphathi, uyazi ukuba umoya namaza zizinto eziqhelekileyo kwaye iintsuku ezinelanga zihlukile.
Yamkela ukuba "awukwazi ukulawula icala lomoya, kodwa ungazihlengahlengisa iiseyile." Qonda oku kwaye ixhala lakho liya kuncitshiswa ngesiqingatha.

Yenziwa njani?
Dwelisa izinto ezintathu ezibalulekileyo imihla ngemihla kwaye ugxininise amandla akho "kwinto onokuyilawula." Ngokubhekiselele kwinxalenye engalindelekanga, lungiselela "i-lifebuoys" kwangaphambili, njengemali yokugcina kunye nezinye izicwangciso. Xa uziva uzithembile, ukuxhalaba kuya kuncipha ngokwendalo.

Unobangela wengxabano yangaphakathi: ukuphatha yonke into "njengobomi okanye ukufa"

Luthini uhlobo lwengxabano yangaphakathi? Ngamandla amaninzi.
Endleleni eya kwishishini, abantu abaninzi bahamba emkhenkceni obhityileyo ngaso sonke isigqibo abasenzayo, besoyikela ukuba baya kwenza inyathelo elingalunganga kwaye benze impazamo efanayo kwinqanaba ngalinye lendlela.
Kodwa inyaniso kukuba, izigqibo ezininzi azibalulekanga kangako.

Khawufane ucinge, xa udlala imidlalo, ungaziva ulusizi ngayo yonke "impazamo"? Ewe akunjalo, kuba uyazi ukuba lisekho ithuba lovuko. Kuyafana nakwishishini Phatha zonke izigqibo njengovavanyo kunokuba "umgwebo wokugqibela."

Luluphi utshintsho kwisimo sengqondo? Funda nje ukuhamba ukukhanya. Njengosomashishini, nesibindi sokuzama, nesibindi sokungaphumeleli, emva koko wenze isicwangciso sakho ngokukhawuleza. Ngalo lonke ixesha usilela, wongeza umaleko wokhuseleko "kwisikhephe" sakho, kwaye siya kuba namandla xa kufika isaqhwithi esilandelayo.

"Ayikhuphi"Ifilosofi:Funda ukulungela ukubhukuqa nangaliphi na ixesha

Uninzi lwabantu luthatha "unxweme" njengenjongo yabo, kodwa oosomashishini bayazi ukuba ukhuseleko lokwenyani luvela ekulungiseleleni ukubhukuqa.
Ngaba oku akuvakali kulusizi? Kodwa eneneni, luhlobo oluthile lokuphelelwa lithemba.

Cinga ngako, ukuba uqala inkampani kwaye uhlala ucinga "ngeli xesha liya kuphumelela," ngaba ukhuseleko lwakho lwengqondo luya kuphuka lula xa uhlangabezana neengxaki? Kodwa ukuba ukulungele "ukubhukuqa" kwasekuqaleni kwaye ulungiselele "i-lifebuoy" kwangaphambili, ukuze ukwazi ukuphakama kwaye uqhubeke uqhubela phambili emva kokuguqa kwesikhephe, ngaba le ngqondo ayiyi kuzinza ngakumbi?

Indlela yokulungisa "i-lifebuoy"?
Umzekelo, gcina ukuhamba kwemali ngamaxesha onke;
Lungiselela okubi kakhulu kwangaphambili, kwaye uya kufumanisa ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba uqhwithela lunamandla kangakanani, intliziyo yakho iya kuzinza njengelitye.

Guqula ingqondo yakho ibe "sisixhobo sakho esiyimfihlo"

Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba oosomashishini abaphumeleleyo ngenxa ye-IQ yabo ephezulu kunye nobutyebi obuninzi.
Ingqondo ilawula indlela ojonga ngayo ukungaphumeleli, indlela ojonga ngayo imiceli mngeni kunye nokuba unokunyamezela kude kube sekupheleni.

Abanye abantu banokubuza: "Ndixhalabile ngokwemvelo, ngaba ndingayitshintsha?" Ingqondo asiyonto yokuzalwa, kodwa inokukhuliswa ngokuthe ngcembe ngokuhlengahlengisa imikhwa kunye neendlela zokucinga.

Zama ezi ndlela zintathu:

1. ukucingisisa kwemihla ngemihla: Bhala phantsi "uphuculo oluncinci" oluthathu namhlanje Nokuba uthumele i-imeyile kumthengi, ufanelekile ukuhoywa.
2. Yakha inkqubo yenkxaso: Fumana abahlobo abambalwa okanye amaqabane oshishino anokuqonda kwaye athethe ngemiba yengqondo rhoqo.
3. Ukuphumla rhoqo emsebenzini: "Ukulala" ngokufanelekileyo akukona ukubaleka, kodwa ithuba lokuba ingqondo iqalise kwakhona.

Iimbono zomntu: Ingqondo imisela ububanzi bekamva

Bendisoloko ndikholelwa ukuba ukushishina kufana nokunyuka intaba Abanye abantu babona "isiphelo", ngelixa oosomashishini begxile kwinyathelo ngalinye.
Funda ukonwabela xa umoya uhamba kakuhle, funda ukuba nomonde xa umoya uhamba ngokuchasene nawe, kwaye uhlale ugcina ulindelo lwexesha elizayo kwaye ugxininise okwangoku.

Endaweni yokusukela "isiphumo esigqibeleleyo" ngamandla akho onke, gxila ekuphileni eyona "ngoku" engcono. Yeka ukuxhalaba, kwaye ingqondo yakho iya kucaca ngakumbi ukuyeka ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, kwaye uya kusebenza ngakumbi.

Isishwankathelo: Ukusukela namhlanje ukuya phambili, jonga ihlabathi ngengqondo yosomashishini

Ukuxhalaba kunye nokungquzulana kwangaphakathi akuyoyikiyo, yindlela engenakuphepheka kuwo wonke usomashishini.
Kodwa unokukhetha indlela yokucinga eyahlukileyo yokujongana nale mingeni.
Ukwamkela ukungaqiniseki, ukukhanya okuhambahambayo, kunye nokulungiselela izicwangciso zokubhukuqa inqanawe kwangethuba zonke ziingqondo ekufanele zihlakulelwe.

Khumbula, ukuqala ishishini ayisiyonto yokubaleka, yimbaleki. Esikhundleni sokuzama konke okusemandleni akho ukuba "ufike elunxwemeni", kungcono ukufunda ukudansa kunye nomoya kunye namaza.

Ukuba ufuna ukuya phambili, qala ukuziqhelanisa neengqondo zeshishini ngoku! Ikamva lakho limiselwe ukuzola ngakumbi kwaye libe nemincili.