Thola iqiniso lokuthi kungani imindeni yezinga eliphakathi isebenza kanzima kangaka kodwa ingakwazi ukuphindaphinda imfundo ephakeme

Kungani kunzima kangaka ngemindeni esezingeni eliphakathi ukuphindaphinda imfundo ephakeme?

Iyiphi inkohliso enkulu yemindeni esezingeni eliphakathi? Bacabanga ukuthi uma nje benikeza izingane zabo izinsiza ezingcono kakhulu nemfundo ephakeme kakhulu, zizokwazi ukungena esigabeni esiphezulu esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi umgwaqo usugcwele izidumbu.

Umqondo wezemfundo wemindeni yezinga eliphakathi: ukusebenzisa ukuncintisana ukuze uthole ukuhlonishwa

Uyini umnyombo wemfundo esezingeni eliphakathi? Khuphuka ngokuphelelwa yithemba. Vumela izingane zakho zingene enkulisa ehamba phambili, zingene esikoleni samabanga aphansi esingcono kakhulu, zithathe imibuzo enzima kakhulu yezibalo ze-Olympiad, futhi ziqhudelane ngezindawo ezifunwa kakhulu zezikole ze-Ivy League. Le phethini icishe ifane nendlela yokuphila yabazali: ukushintshana ngeziqu zemfundo ukuze bathole imisebenzi, ukushintshana ngemisebenzi ukuze bathole ukuhlonishwa, nokuthembela emalini engenayo ezinzile kanye nezindawo ezithengiswayo ukuze balondoloze inkohliso yokuba "i-social elite."

Yini abayesaba kakhulu? Ukuwa. Bayazi kahle imithetho yomdlalo emphakathini: uma bengasebenzi kanzima ngokwanele, bazowa ngemuva uma bengahloniphekile ngokwanele, bazoqedwa. Ngakho-ke, ngisho noma izingane bezilokhu zihlupheka ngokufunda, zizozitshela ukuthi: "Ngesikhathi esizayo, kufanele siphikelele."

Kodwa umbuzo uwukuthi, ingabe le ndlela i-elite yangempela itshalwa ngayo?

Ingqondo ye-elite: ukubheka phansi, hhayi ukukhuphuka

"Ngiyazi ukusuka ekubeni mpofu ngiye ekubeni yisicebi. Ingakapheli iminyaka eyishumi, ngizobe ngingumphathi!"

Lona umugqa wakudala ovela ku-Zhang Guoli ku-movie "1942", futhi kubuye kube ukucabanga okujwayelekile kwe-elite: bayazi ukuthi bangabamba kanjani amathuba nokudala inani, kunokuthembela ohlelweni ukuze bazikhokhele.

Uyini umnyombo wemfundo ephakeme? Akukhona ngokuthola amaphuzu aphezulu noma amadiploma, kodwa mayelana nokuthuthukisa ukuqwashisa ngebhizinisi, amakhono okwenza izinqumo kanye nokuxhumana komuntu siqu.

I-elite yangempela ngeke igxile kokuthi "indlela yokungena esikoleni esihlonishwayo", kodwa izocabanga: "Ngingakwazi kanjani ukuqonda izinsiza futhi ngithonye imithetho?"

Ngakho-ke, indlela abakhulisa ngayo izingane zabo ihluke ngokuphelele kuleyo yesigaba esiphakathi:

• Imfundo yekilasi eliphakathi: Sebenza kanzima ukuze ufunde ulwazi, ufundele izivivinyo ngokuzikhandla, futhi usebenzise amaphuzu okuhlola ukuze ufakazele ukuthi ukufanelekele ukungena esikoleni esihle futhi uthole umsebenzi omuhle.
• Imfundo ye-Elite: Vumela izingane zixhumane nebhizinisi kusenesikhathi, zivumele ziqonde imakethe, futhi zifunde ukuthola amathuba esikhundleni sokuzilinda zithule.

Yingakho izingane eziningi ezivela emindenini yomthengisi kungenzeka ukuthi ziqale amabhizinisi azo zisencane, kuyilapho izingane eziphuma emindenini esezingeni eliphakathi zisakhumbula amagama, zenza izivivinyo, futhi zenza izivivinyo ze-TOEFL.

Umehluko omkhulu phakathi kosomabhizinisi nabasebenzi: ikhono lokumelana nezingozi

Abantu abasebenzayoImpilo, ibhuloho elinepulangwe elilodwa elibonakala liphephile: ukuba nomsebenzi ohloniphekile kungalondoloza ukuphila okusezingeni eliphakathi. Kodwa uma uhlangabezana nokudilizwa, izinguquko zezimboni, izinkinga zempilo... yonke into enhle iyawa ngokuphazima kweso.

Kuhlukile kosomabhizinisi. Kunokuba babeke wonke amathemba abo emsebenzini owodwa, bakha izindlela eziningi zemali engenayo futhi bathembele emakethe kunomqashi oyedwa.

U-Taleb ushiwo ku-Antifragile:Abantu abaqine ngempela akubona labo abagwema izingozi, kodwa yilabo abangathola amathuba ezinxushunxushwini. Lona ukucabanga okuyinhloko kosomabhizinisi - abacabangi ukuthi bangajabulisa kanjani umphathi wabo, kodwa mayelana nokuthola amakhasimende nokudala inani.

Inkinga ngemindeni yezinga eliphakathi ukuthi imodeli yabo yemfundo ikhiqiza abafuna umsebenzi esikhathini esizayo kunokuba abalawuli bakusasa.

Izingane zosomabhizinisi kanye nabasesigabeni esiphakathi zizoba nezimpilo ezihlukene uma sezikhulile

Isiqhathaniso esilula:

• Izingane zabathengisi: Kusukela ngisemncane, ngiye ngafunda ukuphatha ibhizinisi nokuqonda indlela yokusebenzisa izinsiza ukuze ngizuze izinzuzo ezinkulu.
• Izingane zemindeni esezingeni eliphakathi: Funda ukuthi ungawathola kanjani amamaki aphezulu, ungene esikoleni esihle, futhi uthole umsebenzi okhokha kakhulu esikhathini esizayo.

Lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zenzelwe ukubaholela ezimpilweni ezihluke ngokuphelele lapho zikhula. Ezangaphambili zisetshenziselwa ukulawula isiphetho sazo, kuyilapho lezi zamuva zingazama kuphela ukusinda ngaphansi kwemithetho ekhona yomdlalo.

Isizathu esiyinhloko sokuthi kungani imindeni yezinga eliphakathi ingakwazi ukuphindaphinda imfundo ephakeme

Ekugcineni, imfundo yezinga eliphakathi empeleni imayelana "nokuthi ungawunqoba kanjani umncintiswano," kanti imfundo ephakeme imayelana "nendlela yokudala amathuba."

Ukuze sakhe amathuba, kufaneleBheka phansi, hhayi phezulu.

• Isigaba esiphakathi sibheka phezulu: Bafuna ukulingisa indlela yokuphila yekilasi eliphezulu, ukuthenga izikhwama ezibizayo, futhi bafunde ukugibela amahhashi, becabanga ukuthi lokhu kuzobavumela ukuba bahambisane nombuthano we-elite.
• Usomabhizinisi obheke phansi: Babheka izidingo zemakethe futhi benze imikhiqizo namasevisi ukuhlangabezana nalezo zidingo.

Yingakho abantu abaningi abanesizinda samabhizinisi besakwazi ukuthola isisekelo emphakathini noma bengenazo iziqu zenyuvesi ehlonishwayo. Ngoba bayaqonda:Umongo walo mhlaba awukona ukuwina isikhundla ngezivivinyo, kodwa ukushintshanisa amanani.

Kufanele ibe njani imfundo yeqiniso yekhethelo?

Uma umndeni wezinga eliphakathi ufuna ngempela izingane zawo zibe izicukuthwane zesikhathi esizayo, yini okufanele uyenze?

1. Thuthukisa ukucabanga kwebhizinisi —— Vumela izingane ziqonde imakethe esikhundleni sokwenza nje izivivinyo. Lapho ubanikeza imali ephaketheni, ungayiniki ngokuqondile, kodwa bavumele bathole izindlela “zokuzuza” imali, njengokumisa indawo yokudayisa noma ukwenza itoho.
2. Khuthaza ukwehluleka kanye nokuhlola kanye namaphutha ——Izicukuthwane zangempela zikhula ngezilingo namaphutha amaningi. Kunokuba uthole amaphuzu aphezulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda indlela yokuthola impumelelo ekuhlulekeni.
3. Yakha ukuqwashisa ngenethiwekhi —— Izinsiza zomhlaba zilawulwa abantu abambalwa Amathuba angempela ngokuvamile avela “kowaziyo” kunokuthi “mangaki amaphuzu owatholayo esivivinyweni.
4. Vumela izingane zibone izindlela zokuphila ezehlukene —— Ungavele ubatshele ukuthi “bafunde kanzima, bangene enyuvesi esezingeni eliphezulu, futhi bathole umsebenzi omuhle”, kodwa bavumele baqonde ukuthi bangakwazi ukuqala ibhizinisi, batshale imali, futhi bazenzele owabo umsebenzi.

Isiphetho: Kuphela ngokushintsha ukucabanga kwakho ungashintsha ikusasa lakho

Kukhona isisho esithi:"Ubumpofu obubi kakhulu akukhona ukuswela imali, kodwa ubumpofu bolwazi."

Isizathu esenza kube nzima ukuthi abantu besigaba esiphakathi badlulele eqophelweni eliphezulu wukuthi basasebenzisa umqondo “wabafundi abahle” ukufundisa izingane zabo, kanti izicukuthwane zangempela zisebenzisa umqondo “wosomabhizinisi” ukubumba isizukulwane esilandelayo.

Uma ufuna izingane zakho zigqashule ngempela ekusakazeni kwangaphakathi futhi zime ezindaweni eziphakeme emphakathini, kumelwe uphume ogibeni lokucabanga “lomfundi omuhle” futhi uzivumele ziqonde ngempela ukuthi umhlaba usebenza kanjani.

Phela, ukuhlolwa okubaluleke kakhulu emhlabeni,Akukhona mayelana nokuhlolwa kokungena ekolishi, kodwa mayelana nokuthi ungaba kanjani umuntu owenza imithetho emdlalweni wempilo.